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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Overcoming “What If” Doubts


By Michael Licona

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Dr. Craig,

What is your best advice for overcoming "what if" doubts? I find that this is my biggest struggle. I find a compelling argument, and then I ask, "but what if..." This constantly starts me over at square one. I know that this is partially due to my fear of giving in to Christianity and then being wrong. It isn't about pride; I would just be devastated. I've experienced that before when my faith has been shaken. No one will ever reach a conclusion if they continue to ask "what if." I know this. So how do I overcome it? It would seem so simple to some. Simply stop asking "what if?" But those who have experienced a gripping fear know that it is harder than it seems. So for those of us who suffer from the "what if" syndrome—what do we do next?—Amanda, USA
Dr. Craig responds:

Occasionally I like to invite a guest scholar to respond to a question on which he has worked. Michael Licona recently spoke to my Defenders class on the subject of Doubt, and so, Amanda, I asked Mike to tackle your question. I think you'll find that you and he are a lot alike! His response to your question follows:

I can certainly sympathize with this doubter! One of my idiosyncrasies is that I'm a perpetual second-guesser. I seem to question just about everything. I don't want to make a bad decision, even in some very insignificant matters. So, it just makes sense that I often have doubts pertaining to decisions in significant matters. It's not an intentional exercise. In fact, it's downright frustrating to me. But it's the way I'm wired.

As a result, I've doubted my Christian faith many times; sometimes to the point of almost walking away from it. I've asked myself, "Have I been brainwashed? Am I unable to think objectively because I was brought up to believe? What if I'm wrong?" I have the peace Paul describes as being the inward confirmation of God's Spirit that I belong to Christ.1 [But] how can I know whether my peace is really from God? That's a tough question. And to be honest, I still don't know the answer to that one.

Thankfully, when I began experiencing doubts in the 1980s, a philosophy professor understood where I was because he had likewise struggled with doubts. I didn't have Gary Habermas for a class at Liberty University, since he taught in the philosophy department, while my graduate work there was in the field of New Testament studies. But Habermas helped me tremendously in understanding doubt and how to deal with it. In what follows, I combine some of Habermas' thoughts with my own. I have good news for those of you who struggle with doubt: You can successfully deal with doubting by taking four key actions.

Action #1: Recognize that doubting is normal. Abraham met God, who informed him he would have a son from whom a mighty nation would arise. Yet, when Abraham's life was in danger, he lied in order to save himself, although he knew God's promise of a son had not yet been fulfilled.2 One would think he would have trusted God to save him. Instead, he lied, and God ended up intervening in order to restore Abraham's wife Sarah to him, who had been taken as a result of his lie. Fast forward eight chapters. Abraham is faced with the same situation. But this time he knew he could trust God to protect him without needing to take matters into his own hands and lie. Well, that's not the way it went. Abraham once again doubted God's promise and repeated his error. He lied to the king who, like Pharaoh earlier, took Sarah into his harem, and God, once again, had to intervene.3 However, Abraham would go on to become a man of great faith and is listed in the Bible's Faith Hall of Fame.4 In fact, if there's an MVP in that Hall of Fame, it's Abraham.

John the Baptist was a cousin of Jesus. Both had been born of miraculous circumstances. John would later baptize Jesus, see the Holy Spirit descend upon Him, and hear a heavenly voice that affirmed His standing. John was later imprisoned, and, sometime during that period, he sent some of his disciples to ask Jesus whether He was really the Messiah or whether they should expect someone else. Whoa! How could John ask that question, since he had heard the stories of both his and Jesus' miraculous births and had witnessed divine signs when he baptized Jesus? John's sense of being abandoned while in prison brought on emotional doubt. He knew the evidence. But life wasn't turning out as he had expected. In fact, it was rather unpleasant at that moment. Jesus knew that. He told John's disciples to return to John and report the miracles they had seen Him perform, miracles expected of the Messiah.5 After the disciples left, Jesus turned to the crowd. All eyes were looking at Him. What would Jesus say to those who had just learned that His wing man was now experiencing doubts?

What did you go out into the wilderness to see? A reed shaken by the wind? What did you go out to see? A man dressed in fancy clothes? Look, those who wear fancy clothes are in the homes of kings! What did you go out to see? A prophet? Yes, I tell you, and more than a prophet. This is the one about whom it is written: "Look, I am sending my messenger ahead of you, who will prepare your way before you." I tell you the truth, among those born of women, no one has arisen greater than John the Baptist.6

Notice that Jesus did not rebuke John for doubting. Instead, He provided evidence, encouraged him, and complimented him, saying there's none greater—all [the] while fully aware that John was struggling with doubt.

If Abraham and John the Baptist can experience doubt while enjoying God's favor, then it appears that God understands our emotional makeup and is patient with us. Many Christians never experience doubt. However, for those of us who do, it is comforting to know we are in good company with others like Abraham and John the Baptist. Doubters are not second-class citizens in God's kingdom!

"Dude! That may work for those who heard from God and who saw Jesus' miracles. But it doesn't help me much, since I didn't see His miracles." I understand. All I've said thus far is the first action in dealing with doubt: Recognize that doubting is normal.

Action #2: Recognize that good evidence exists supporting the truth of Christianity.Although we can't climb into a time machine, travel back in time, and witness Jesus' miracles, we have very strong historical evidence that the greatest of His miracles actually occurred: His resurrection. Gary Habermas knows more on that subject than anyone. One could say, "Among those born of women, no one has more knowledge of the evidence for Jesus' resurrection than Gary Habermas."

Now, if Jesus rose from the dead, Christianity is certainly true. "But," you may think, "His resurrection is reported in the Bible. How can I know the Bible is true? Must I just accept it purely on faith?" During that first visit with Professor Habermas, he gave me a brief tour of the historical evidence for Jesus' resurrection. I was comforted to know there was actual evidence. But, admittedly, the case wasn't airtight. The evidence didn't give me 100 percent certainty. This didn't faze Habermas. Science can't provide that degree of certainty, either. Scientific and historical investigation can only take us so far. We must look for the best explanation of the available data and settle for reasonable or adequate certainty, just as we do with other major life decisions. The rest is faith, and that is true of any worldview, whether Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, or atheist. However, Jesus' resurrection is unparalleled in terms of strong evidence for confirming any other worldview. [Note: See link at the bottom of the article to a free ebook by Habermas.]

Action #3: Recognize that absolute certainty is an unreasonable expectation. Some live with faith without ever doubting. That's great. But some of us are so wired that we are incapable of that. A few years ago, I had one of those "Aha!" moments that has been life-changing. I realized that my faith is just one of many things I second-guess. I doubt many decisions lonnnnngggg after I've made them. This is an idiosyncrasy I've possessed from childhood, and I hate it. We're not just talking about important decisions, such as whom I married. I sometimes find myself reconsidering, re-reconsidering, and re-re-reconsidering unimportant decisions, such as items I've purchased: a watch, a car, a bottle of cologne. This recognition alone has been a tremendous help to me in understanding why I doubt: It's the way I'm wired. For me, absolute certainty is an unreasonable expectation. So, I'm learning to live contently with reasonable certainty.

Action #4: Recognize that faith is more than a feeling or being without doubt. It's a commitment. A man once came to Jesus and asked Him to heal his son who was demon-possessed. He believed (after all, he came to Jesus for help) but asked Jesus to help him with his unbelief.7 He was relying on Jesus to heal his son. Peter walked on water and began sinking when he became frightened by the waves and doubted.8 Yet, it was Peter who was out of the boat while the others watched from inside it. For the Christ follower, faith is entrusting oneself to Christ alone for salvation. Being a Christ follower means that when I'm faced with a moral decision, I choose the route taught by Jesus. … I obey Jesus because I believe Him. I may still have lingering doubts. But the faith I have wins and determines my behavior in the life of faith. As Jesus' brother wrote, "Show me your faith without works and I will show you faith by my works."9

In summary, here are the four key actions for dealing with doubt:
Recognize that doubting is normal.
Recognize that good evidence exists supporting the truth of Christianity.
Recognize that absolute certainty is an unreasonable expectation.
Recognize that faith is more than a feeling or being without doubt. It's a commitment.

For more on dealing with doubt, readers may greatly benefit from the free online book by Gary Habermas titled The Thomas Factor: Using Your Doubts to Draw Closer to God.

For a comprehensive historical case for the resurrection of Jesus, see my recent bookThe Resurrection of Jesus: A New Historiographical Approach.



From the Reasonable Faith website,
http://www.reasonablefaith.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=9333
Published on Anchor June 2012. Read by Amber Larriva.

Monday, June 18, 2012

Love Is the Most Important Thing!


By Maria Fontaine

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There is a lot in the Bible about human relationships and about having love toward others. That’s the whole purpose for living, to love God and others. The purpose for everything is love. That’s the most important thing. You may have a lot of gifts and talents, but if you don’t have love, it’s nothing.1 And the Bible isn't talking about love for your computer or your work. It’s talking about love for the Lord and others. And if you love God you’ll love others too, because loving others is one way you show love for the Lord.

If we’re going to grow and mature in spirit, then we’ve got to grow in love, not just in diligence in our work. The Bible doesn’t teach us that diligence is the most important thing; it teaches us that love is the most important thing. Although diligence is important, “The greatest of these is love.”2

You may do your work well and accomplish a lot, but if you haven’t learned to work with others and treat them with love, then you’re missing one of the main lessons we’re here on earth to learn. We need to learn that people are different and that we can’t treat them all the same. There are so many things written in the Bible about how the Lord wants us to treat people differently according to their needs. Jesus was very mindful of human weaknesses and didn’t require the same from everyone.3 The apostle Paul also instructed, “Uphold the weak, be patient with all.”4

Some years ago I worked with two talented secretaries, Laura and Anne. We discovered together an important lesson in human relationships. Both Laura and Anne were hard workers—really tops in their field, very good at what they did. When it came to their work, they were diligent and efficient and got the job done. But there was often friction in the office.

Sensitive Anne was hurt because of Laura’s rather snappy attitude. Laura thought it was all Anne’s fault for being too sensitive. Laura was partially right; Anne was sensitive. But when I talked with Laura about the problem, we realized that it presented her with a wonderful opportunity for personal growth. Laura was good at her work, but was she willing to learn to improve her relationships with people?

Why had God put Anne in the position of working with Laura in the first place? Might He be working in Laura’s life to help her learn to get along with others better? He could have easily put someone with her who wasn’t so sensitive, but perhaps He wanted them to learn to get along together. Maybe He wanted Laura to learn to be more considerate and Anne to learn not to be so sensitive.

Laura was very single-minded and totally dedicated to her work, and that’s good, but she needed to learn to be more understanding of others whom she didn’t think were quite as gifted as she was.

It just comes down to love and “doing unto others as we would have them do unto us.”5 Regardless of what else we accomplish and everything else we might do right and how much more we might get done than everybody else, we still need to have love and show love for others.

What is the most important ingredient in our relationships with each other? What did Jesus say proves we are the Lord’s disciples? Love. In John 13:35 He said: “By this shall all men know that ye are My disciples, if ye have love for each other.”

How can you love God whom you can’t see, if you can’t love your brothers and sisters in the Lord, or the people you work and interact with? How can you say you love people whom you haven’t seen if you don’t love those whom you see every day?6

We could all stand to improve in our relations with others, and the Bible has lots of counsel for us on that subject—how to work with others, how to treat them, how to be loving toward them, and much more. It talks about patience, longsuffering, love, unselfishness, and giving. In all of the passages about these things, the Lord is talking about relationships between human beings, not about our work or the relationships we have with things—our papers or computers or machines. He’s talking about people. You may work great with your computer, but you’re not going to grow much spiritually unless you learn to have loving interaction with other people—and that’s not always easy. It takes patience, love, and humility.

The Lord wants us all to learn how to get along with people, even those that we don’t necessarily feel too compatible with or who don’t really think the same way as we do or who maybe we don’t feel are as talented or as smart as us. We can all stand to learn lessons about love and working with others, which is really the most important thing to learn.

The Lord gave the simple answer of how to work with others when He said, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”7 It’s all in that little tiny sentence, but it takes a lot of learning to learn how to carry that one little thing out—and a lot of love. But that’s what we’re here to learn.

Laura’s main job wasn’t just to learn as much as she could on the computer until she got so proficient on it she could run any kind of program and even program it herself. That wasn’t the point. The thing the Lord wanted her to learn that’s even more important is how to have love, how to interact with people.

“Am I my brother’s keeper?”8 Well, the answer is obvious. Of course we are our brother’s keeper, and we need to remember that some people need to be “kept” even more lovingly and tenderly than others. To be successful with people, you have to learn that people are different and need to be treated differently.

The Lord has put certain people in your life, whether you like it or not. When you’re working with someone, or cross paths with them regularly, whether you like them or not, the Lord has placed you in a position of interacting with them, and it’s your responsibility to love them. If you can’t get along with them, He evidently knows you need to learn to or He wouldn’t have put you together. It must be possible or He wouldn’t have put you in that situation.

It’s so easy to snap at somebody and say, “Why didn’t you do it right?” But if you want to grow and progress the way the Lord wants you to, then you need to learn to handle each situation in love.

So look at this as a new challenge in life: “What can I do to grow in my relationship with other people?” Part of the answer to that is in growing in our relationship with the Lord. If we’re growing in the Lord, then we’ll be more loving toward other people, and that’s what it’s all about.

That’s one of our purposes in life—to love others. Jesus said to His disciples, “This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”9 There it is: it’s His commandment. He ordered us, His disciples, to love one another.

What is love? Love is not hurting; love is going out of your way to make others happy. So it’s clear that as Christians we are really erring if we don’t love one another. Laura was an excellent worker, but even if she had been perfect, even if she spent 18 hours a day on the job without making a mistake, she still would not have been pleasing God if she did not show a loving attitude toward the people she worked with.

In our office there was obviously a problem between Laura and Anne, and resolving it was part of their job. It wasn’t easy, because learning how to work with other people can be one of the hardest things to learn. For many people, that can be a lot harder to learn than learning how to operate a machine that doesn’t talk back.

The Lord doesn’t want us to stop doing our jobs, but He does expect us to go on to more, to learn things that are more difficult, but more rewarding in a lot of ways. Working with people and being able to love people and relate to them is another reward all its own.

Unless we learn how to live lovingly, prophecy and all of the other gifts of the Spirit are not going to mean anything. It’s nothing to the Lord without love.

You can have all the gifts of the Spirit, but without love, it’s meaningless.10 Love is the most important thing.

You can quote the Bible word for word, but if you don’t live it in love, it’s not doing you much good. You can speak with the tongues of men and angels, you can make all kinds of sacrifices, but without love, it profits nothing. You can have all the gifts of the Spirit, but without love it is meaningless. You can be tops in your field, but if you don’t manifest God’s love to others, you’re not the best you can be. If you don’t have love, you don’t have anything. Love is the most important thing.

Originally published March 1983. Updated and republished June 2012.
Read by Bethany Kelly.


1 1 Corinthians 13:1–3.

2 1 Corinthians 13:13.

3 Luke 7:37–43; John 8:3–11; John 10:14–16.

4 1 Thessalonians 5:14 NKJ.

5 Matthew 7:12.

6 1 John 4:20.

7 Matthew 7:12.

8 Genesis 4:9.

9 John 15:12.

10 1 Corinthians 13.

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