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Thursday, July 26, 2012

Working out in the middle of the working day!


By Dorene Internicola, Reuters, July 23, 2012

NEW YORK (Reuters)—With the three-martini lunch gone the way of the typewriter, office workers are free to discover the healthier perks of midday movement.

An active lunchtime can range from the sweaty to the serene, experts say, from a full-out cardio blast to a walk in the park.

“People who want to get in a good workout over lunch hour can do simple things like go for a walk,” said Dr. Cedric Bryant, chief science officer of the American Council on Exercise.

“Think about it. Thirty minutes on a regular basis would meet the minimum threshold for physical activity,” he added.

U.S. government guidelines state that adults 18 and older need 30 minutes of physical activity on five or more days a week to be healthy.

For an intense workout on a rainy day, Bryant suggests finding a quiet stairwell and performing a series of lunges, dips, push-ups, alternating quick and slow climbs, or taking the stairs two at a time.

“You can do a mix of cardio, interval and resistance training using the stairs,” he explained.

How intense should your midday workout be? For many, perspiration is the dividing line.

“Sweating is a huge obstacle for most people,” said Bryant, “but just sitting at the computer compromises posture and has health consequences.”

As author of “Walking Deck: 50 Ways to Walk Yourself Healthy,” Florida-based fitness expert Shirley Archer has helped workers to organize lunchtime walking groups.

“If you haven’t had a chance to pace out the walks in advance, simply walk 12-15 minutes and then turn around and re-trace your steps,” Archer said. “You will be back in time.”

Elasticized exercise bands or tubing can add toning moves to a walk, she said, adding that intervals, circuits and hills would also add variety.

“Keep a water bottle and pair of walking shoes in your desk at all times,” she recommends. “Do not take these home.”

If cardio needs are met outside the office, lunchtime might be better spent in strength and toning exercises, she said.

For people with a gym membership, the 30-minute treadmill run is a popular option, according to California-based trainer Amy Dixon, who added that many gyms tailor short fitness classes to the lunch crowd.

“You have to prepare for a quick and dirty workout in the middle of the day.” said Dixon, creator of the “Give Me 10” and “Breathless Body” fitness DVDs.

“For women, you want waterproof mascara, cool towels, a change of clothes, and something to keep your hair off of your face.”

For people who prefer not to sweat Dixon said they should consider flexibility exercises.

“Use that time to do stretches and rotations,” she said, “or do core work that’s not as intense as your cardio workout.”

Dr. Nicolaas Pronk, an expert on workplace wellness with the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM), said often workers’ lunch time is more limited than 30 minutes.

He recommends workers first focus on reducing prolonged periods of sitting with 10-minute breaks throughout the day.

Changes in office design, such as sit-stand desks, could help workers without altering the work flow, as well as using stairs.

Bryant said another side benefit of the lunchtime workout is the brown bag.

“Odds are you’ll probably be eating better because you won’t be going out to lunch,” he said.

Who Are You Really Mad At?


By Peter Bregman, HBR, July 23, 2012

A man and two children, a boy about nine and a girl about seven, were walking ahead of me in silence. The boy looked up and said something to his father. Whatever he said set off his father, who started yelling at the boy. I could see the boy’s pain as his father’s words hit him. It was heartbreaking.

What happened next took me by surprise, but shouldn’t have: As soon as his father stopped yelling at him, the boy turned to his little sister and hit her.

As I thought about that boy, I realized how often I—and so many people I know—do a version of the same thing. We say or do something to someone when, really, it’s meant for someone else.

Sometimes it’s as obvious as it was with the boy. Perhaps you know a manager who, after being yelled at by his boss, turns around and yells at his employees.

But often it’s far more subtle. After seeing that boy hit his sister, I began to watch myself more closely. What do I direct at one person that’s meant for another?

It’s hard to see that kind of behavior in yourself. At first, I didn’t notice anything. But I kept looking. I even spent a couple of days trying to talk less, just noticing my urge to talk and then examining where the urge came from. Was I speaking to the right person?

A pattern began to emerge, one I’m embarrassed about but that became hard to ignore: I do and say things specifically to impress people, even people I don’t know.

Put aside for a moment that trying to impress someone is highly unimpressive. Why do I do it? Do I really care what complete strangers think of me? Who am I truly trying to impress?

As I tossed that thought around for a while, one person kept coming to mind: my mother.

As a kid, like most kids, I wanted to please her. But we grow out of that as we become adults, right?

Apparently not me. I try to show people that I’m succeeding—even by bragging or showing off—because, somewhere in the complicated recesses of my mind, I believe it will deepen my mother’s love for me. In other words, I try to get other people to notice the things that are important to my mother.

It’s crazy, I know. But so is hitting your sister because you’re angry at your father. It might be crazy but it’s what we do.

But we don’t have to. Simply recognizing the absurdity of the dynamic has helped immensely.

I now care less what other people think and more about what things feel like to me. I’m calmer. Less needy of praise. I speak and act more deliberately. The immensity of the change has been startling to me.

Still, I have a long way to go. So far, though, the path of this change has been surprisingly straightforward:

1. Recognize the dynamic. It’s easiest to notice in other people first. Then watch for it in yourself. The mere fact that you’re reading this will already heighten your awareness of it. If you want to go further, think for a moment about the last few days and notice times you said or did things that seemed unnecessary or inappropriate for the audience. Were you really addressing a different audience than the one in front of you?

2. Resist the urge. Once you recognize your own sleight of hand, try to catch yourself before you say the wrong thing to the wrong person. One way to do that is to minimize your speech. Simply notice your urge to speak. Speaking releases the tension of the urge and can make it harder to discover what’s behind it. The unsatisfied urge, on the other hand, tells a story. It reveals the insecurity, the craving, the longing, and the fear. As long as it remains unsatisfied, the insecurity or longing builds—and becomes more obvious.

If you feel angry at an employee, try not to express that anger immediately and see what’s behind what you feel. Where is that anger coming from? If you feel intimidated by a colleague, pause before walking away silently and ask yourself why you’re intimidated. Is that colleague dangerous? Or does he remind you of someone who isn’t even there?

I’m not advocating repression. Don’t pretend you aren’t angry or intimidated—that won’t help and it will surely come out sideways. Instead, ask yourself why you feel angry or intimidated. Sure, the answer might be that your employee is an idiot or your colleague is a bully. But often, when you look more deeply, you’ll discover someone else standing in front of you.

That discovery is freedom. It releases you from your instinctive action and allows you to choose better responses that will lead to more productive relationships.

This morning, I woke up anxious. I sat at my desk with a long list of things I wanted to accomplish and felt behind before I even started. My stress grew; how could I have put myself in this situation? Then Daniel, my five year old, came in to the room and I immediately felt annoyed. I had the urge to tell him not to disturb me.

Before reacting though, I remembered that man who yelled at his boy who then hit his sister. I didn’t want to continue the chain. I wasn’t annoyed at Daniel, I was annoyed at myself. I took a deep breath, turned in my chair and smiled. Chain broken.

My reward? A hug, a smile, and the sweetest little kiss you can imagine.

The Thorn Factor - Marriage Counsel


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I don’t think that God intended any marriage to be perfect. I think of it as the “thorn” factor that He allows into the equation—that element that we shrink from, but that He knows we need. You may ask yourself, “Why would we need differences of opinion, sensitivities, misunderstandings, jealousies, resentments, comparing, sacrificing, arguments, emotional upsets, fears, heartbreaks, and adversity? Those things don’t sound like they would build a very strong marriage.”

This reminds me of the well-known adage, “It’s your attitude toward adversity that counts.” We can’t escape the fact that character and moral depth are developed through difficulties. If we didn’t experience the trials of life, we wouldn’t learn how to exercise the qualities that make us better people—patience, understanding, forgiveness, and more.

Misunderstandings, disagreements, hurts, even wrongs, force us to respond to them. We can choose to stretch, to become better, to reach out to the Lord for more of His love, to forgive, to make a conscious decision to learn what we can from the situation. Marriage is full of such opportunities.

It’s how we face the circumstances that come into our life and what we do with them that counts. Will we learn from our difficulties and become better or will we become hardened? Will we become humbler or prouder? Will we become creative in solving problems or will we sink under them in despair? Will we become desperate to become what we should be in order to handle the difficulties, or will we become accusatory and critical? Will we become more committed to “wrestling with the angel” until we get the blessing, or will we be tempted to quit when the going gets difficult?

Even when we do our very best and we grow and learn and mature, there are always more challenges ahead, because that’s the way God created life to be. We overcome one difficulty and then we go on to another one. But each victory is a step forward. Each victory is fulfilling. Each victory takes us further along the road of progress.

But what about when we can’t overcome something and it seems that we’re doomed to permanent frustration in some area? If we’ve done what we can and we’ve prayed all we can pray, God’s word to us is that we are not a failure and all is not lost. “Having done all, we can still stand”1 and allow the Lord to lead our hearts into His patient perseverance.

The Lord may know that these rocky areas are actually more beneficial to us in some way than a smooth road would be. In partnership with our heavenly husband, we can evaluate the situation and let Him show us how He sees it and how we should look at it. We can let Him show us the advantages of our particular relationship, smooth or difficult. Then we can praise Him for our life and the obstacles and difficulties, as well as the smooth and pleasant experiences.

As we communicate with Him about our relationship, He will motivate us to do better in the areas we need to, He will encourage us for the good we are doing, and He will help us to keep His flame of love burning in our relationship. He loves us so much, and with His power behind us, we will have strength and grace to meet the next challenge.—Maria Fontaine2

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There’s no crown without a cross, no testimony without a test, no triumph without a trial, no victory without a battle, no rose without a thorn! Praise God … it’s worth every fight, every battle, every test, every trial! It’s worth it all!—David Brandt Berg3

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My God, I have never thanked Thee for my ‘thorn’! I have thanked Thee a thousand times for my roses, but never once for my ‘thorn’; I have been looking forward to a world where I shall get compensation for my cross as itself a present glory. Teach me the glory of my cross; teach me the value of my ‘thorn’. Show me that I have climbed to Thee by the path of pain. Show me that my tears have made my rainbow.—George Matheson

Published on Anchor July 2012. Read by Amber Larriva.


1 Ephesians 6:13.

2 Originally published February 2011.

3 Originally published September 1976.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Judge Not! What did Jesus mean?

http://lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVarticles/JudgingWithRighteousJudgment.html
Borrowing characters from C. S. Lewis, imagine this dialogue between a junior demon named Wormwood and his wicked uncle Screwtape.

Wormwood: Believers have so many weapons at their disposal. It is difficult to neutralize them. It takes a huge effort just to slow the work of a single Christian.

Screwtape: Your one-on-one approach is inefficient. This is the age of Madison Avenue and mass marketing. If you can undermine their whole group at once, then you’ve accomplished something.

Wormwood: Unfortunately, I’m not highly productive. In the time it takes me to frustrate one believer, I could tempt a dozen heathens.

Screwtape: Don’t lose heart, Wormwood. We are imple­menting a plan to impair the whole Church with a single ploy.

Wormwood: I don’t see how that will be possible. I see Christians dedicated to warning others about hell. It’s all I can do just to get one of them distracted for a short time.

Screwtape: We are going to use their Leader’s own words.

Wormwood: No! Please don’t. Don’t even joke about using His words. I can’t take it.

Screwtape: If you’re ever going to grow up to be an effec­tive demon, you’re going to have to learn to use the Enemy’s words against Him.

Wormwood: It just seems so dangerous. Which words are you going to use?

Screwtape: “Judge not!”

Wormwood: I don’t understand why He would tell them not to judge. That’s confusing. He commanded His followers to rebuke, admonish, and judge hundreds of times in His Book. And that’s what they’re out there doing. And I might add, it’s causing me grief.

Screwtape: When their Leader said those words, He was speaking to hypocrites. “Judge not… you hypocrite,” as He said later in the same paragraph.

Wormwood: Yeah, but how are we going to use “Judge not” to neutralize the whole Church?

Screwtape: We’re going to get them to ignore the fact that He was talking to hypocrites. He said that hypocrites should not judge, at least not until they stop doing the wrong deed themselves. But we’re going to make them think none of them should judge, ever.

Wormwood: That’s bril­liant… if you can pull it off, that is. I mean, if we can get them to stop judging, then they won’t rebuke the wicked. And they won’t be able to admonish those who are sexually immoral.

Screwtape: It is even more brilliant than you realize. If we can seduce Christians into fol­lowing the instructions for hypo­crites, we will turn them into hypocrites. It’s like government workers who follow foolish rules so precisely they are transformed from human beings into bureau­crats; drones who mindlessly dis­pense red tape regardless of the misfortune they cause. The slave who willingly obeys his master, begins to conform to the master. If believers willingly submit to an instruction for hypocrites, they will conform to hypocrisy. Eventually, with a little evil luck, we might stop them from con­fronting unbelievers altogether because, as you know Worm­wood, to confront requires judg­ing. And if they don’t judge un­believers, they are hypocrites, professing the Gospel but deny­ing its power.

Wormwood: Ha, ha. I’m excited. When do we start?

Screwtape: Everything is underway already. Just do your part.

Wormwood: And that is…?

Screwtape: Make sure your targets read as little of the Book as possible. Don’t get too wor­ried if they stick to their favorite twenty cliché verses. But make sure they remain ignorant of most of the Word.

Wormwood: Master, you are brilliant.

Screwtape: You can call me Master if you want, but don’t let the boss hear you.

Hopefully the Church will see Judge Not headed for retirement replaced with Judge Rightly. For as Jesus said, “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment” (John 7:24).
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