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Saturday, February 23, 2013

'Sharon was about to leave two-thirds of the West Bank'


By Elhanan Miller, Times of Israel, February 19, 2013
US President Barack Obama is due to arrive in Israel for his first presidential visit in March, and speculation abounds surrounding the true intent of his trip. Rafi Eitan, a former high-ranking Mossad official and government minister under Ehud Olmert—banned from the US since the capture of his most famous agent, Jonathan Pollard—says Netanyahu should await the president with a diplomatic proposal of his own: unilateral disengagement from the West Bank.

Former prime minister Ariel Sharon, who was advised by Eitan for years, was engaged in drafting exactly such a plan, which would include the annexation of roughly one-third of the West Bank to Israel, when he suffered a debilitating stroke in January 2006, Eitan told The Times of Israel.

At 86, Eitan—a long-time intelligence operative who oversaw the capture of Adolf Eichmann in 1960, and had a late-life improbable career as a cabinet minister and head of the Gil Pensioners party in the Knesset from 2006-9—is as sharp and eloquent as ever. This slight man, with his trademark thick-rimmed glasses, did not mince his words when speaking of what he perceives as fatal American mistakes in handling the “Arab Spring”—particularly at that crucial moment in June 2012 when the administration could have imposed a secular president on Egypt, Ahmad Shafiq—and by doing so change the course of that country’s history.

Relating to the Ben Zygier Mossad suicide scandal, Eitan said he believes that holding prisoners in solitary confinement may be justifiable if the secrets they divulge can potentially harm Israel’s national security. He refused to address the specifics of the Zygier case, but said that a number of prisoners have been held in similar conditions in the past; their names have all since been revealed by the media.

Israel should withdraw from the West Bank, even without a Palestinian partner. A month before prime minister Sharon suffered a stroke, in January 2006, he was on the phone with Eitan. Four months after Israel’s unilateral disengagement from the Gaza Strip, the two discussed a preliminary plan to leave the West Bank as well, while maintaining the maximum number of Israeli settlements under Israeli control.

“Sharon knew that we must disengage from the Palestinians in the West Bank too; that we can’t continue occupying a foreign people,” Eitan told The Times of Israel.

Sharon dubbed his plan “the mosaic separation,” because it left most Israeli settlements intact, allowing isolated Palestinian villages access to large urban centers through an intricate system of underpasses and tunnels.

“Arik [Sharon] said: Let’s divide Judea and Samaria and take roughly one-third for ourselves, leaving two-thirds for the Arabs,” Eitan said. “Under this plan, the Jordan Valley and the Judean Desert would remain ours.”

With the Palestinian body politic divided today between Gaza and the West Bank—while internal rifts within the PLO prevent “even the signing of an interim agreement”—Eitan said he would advise Netanyahu to implement the Sharon plan immediately.

“We must disconnect from them [the Palestinians] as much as possible,” Eitan said, adding that he would even favor a plan attributed to former foreign minister Avigdor Liberman of handing over the area known as “the Triangle” in northwest Israel—with its 300,000 Arab citizens—to the future Palestinian state.

Allowing Morsi to win in Egypt was ‘stupidity that will resonate for generations.’ “The military unequivocally decided that [Ahmed] Shafiq will be president, not [Mohammed] Morsi,” Eitan told The Times of Israel. “But the Americans put all the pressure on. The announcement [of the president] was delayed by three or four days because of this struggle.”

Immediately after Egypt’s presidential elections in June 2012, Eitan spoke to unnamed local officials, who told him that with a mere 5,000-vote advantage for Islamist candidate Morsi, the military was prepared to announce the victory of his adversary Shafiq, a secular military man closely associated with the Mubarak regime.

But secretary of state Hillary Clinton, Eitan said, decided to favor democracy at all costs and disallow any falsification of the vote.

“This is idiocy. An act of stupidity that will resonate for generations,” Eitan said. “I also thought Mubarak should be replaced, but I believed the Americans would be smart enough to replace him with the next figure. Mubarak would have agreed to that, but the Americans didn’t want that; they wanted democracy. But there is no real democracy in the Arab world at the moment. It will take a few generations to develop.

“The United States is a real democracy. But for the past 50 years I’ve been saying that when it comes to dealing with small nations, the Americans are a foolish nation.”

9 Secrets From A 73-year Marriage


By Holly Corbett, REDBOOK, Feb. 2013
After 73 years of marriage, 94-year old Barbara Cooper knows how to get through matrimony’s rough patches. The author of Fall in Love for Life shares her hard-earned wisdom.

On making time to make love. “I don’t understand couples who say they are too busy or too tired to sleep together. Unless they are building roads all day or running a multi-national corporation, I expect they have just lost sight of priorities. If you wish to stay connected and happy in your marriage, my advice to you is to never be too tired or too busy to feel love for your partner. When your life is nearly over, you will regret it if you look back and recall too many nights when you made excuses instead of making love.”

On bickering. “The most important thing for any couple trying to get along is to think before you speak. If you are bickering and find that you are getting angry, take a deep breath and change course, and ask your partner to do the same. Try saying something conciliatory like, ‘I don’t know why this is making me so upset, but it is, so can you just humor me and help me get over it?’ By simply admitting you are losing your cool, you may find that the anger quickly dissipates.”

On greeting your partner. “If you want your relationship to survive and to thrive, you will have to train yourself to focus most of your attention on the person you love. When your sweetheart comes into the room, whether it’s just from taking care of some chores in the garage or from a long day at work, your job is to put down whatever you’re doing, look him in the eye, and verbally express your delight at seeing him again. It’s really so little to ask, and delivers so much—to both of you.”

On having affairs. “Some people have affairs because they tell themselves that they deserve more attention than they get at home. Or maybe they get annoyed because they feel that all of their needs aren’t getting met by their partner. Well, whoever told them that one person could meet their every need? You can actually live quite comfortably without having all of your needs met. Try thinking about it that way; you might be surprised how liberating it is. You are not perfect, and neither is your partner, but you can make a very pleasant life together if you are both serious about providing the love and support that go along with a marriage.”

On going from lovers to parents. “It’s true that when your babies are small, there isn’t much time left over for romantic gestures. But the wonderful thing about romance is that it is the quality, never the quantity, that matters. So when the baby is napping, throw a blanket on the living room floor, slice some peaches or plums or whatever you have in the house, pour a glass of something bubbly, and enjoy a mini picnic. Write love notes to each other and slip them in between the clean diapers. Be creative, and if you want your love to flourish, it certainly will do so.”

On overcoming money problems. “The most important ingredient for getting through tough economic times is THE TRUTH—it’s so important it should be capitalized and italicized. So this means that if you have any financial secrets you are keeping from your partner, you must put them on the table. Doesn’t that sound scary? I am sure it does, but as with so many unpleasant things that only get bigger and stronger in the dark, these secrets have a funny way of shrinking in the light of the truth. And as they get smaller, your stress and worry will fly away. There’s never a better time to be honest with your partner and yourself and make a plan for dealing with your debts and your excess spending—together. I promise, you will not regret it.”

On tuning in to your partner. “I think the place where good marriages break down is when one or both parties begin to take the other person for granted. And yet it’s understandable that this happens. Life is complicated and can be exhausting, so there is always a temptation when you get home to just tune out, because home is one place where you should feel safe enough to let your guard down this way. But there’s a difference between relaxing and disengaging, and while relaxing is a healthy way to recharge your psychic and spiritual batteries, disengaging is a drain on you and your relationships. Nothing is more important than that you recognize the difference and stay present for all the people you love.”

On bringing up the past. “The most important lesson I can teach you from our happy marriage is that we did not rehash. If something was unpleasant, we got through it, handled the fallout, and did not bring it up again in happy times. So we both knew that once a problem was solved, that was it—we would not have to answer for it again, at least not in its current form. And knowing this, we could give all our attention to fixing the problems that came along, because once they were fixed, we could forget about them, which is a very wonderful feeling.”

On controlling your anger. “Have you ever noticed that you can’t spell dangerous without anger? I’m no linguist, but I don’t think that’s a coincidence. When you’re ready to blow, you might say anything hurtful, things you would normally spare the person you love from hearing. Don’t say something you’ll regret forever. Don’t give your partner an excuse to come back to you with his or her own resentments. Instead, find a way to get your anger under control. For myself, I simply run through my mind a short movie of how foolishly I have been acting. You may have better luck singing a silly song, or patting your head while rubbing your tummy, or doing whatever little trick helps bring you outside of yourself long enough to regain control.”

Interview with 'God's Smuggler'


By Michelle A. Vu, Christian Post, February 19, 2013
Brother Andrew has a natural kindness to him that makes those around him—even people meeting him for the first time—feel at ease and as if they’ve known him for years. Perhaps this gift is part of the reason why the Open Doors founder has been so successful in befriending Hamas, Taliban, and other Muslim extremist leaders, while openly sharing his Christian faith with them. Open Doors is an international ministry that assists persecuted Christians around the world.

The Christian Post recently sat down with Brother Andrew to look back at the beginning of his ministry as a Bible smuggler behind the Iron Curtain, to get his take on how American megachurch pastors are doing on advocating for persecuted Christians, to hear about his friendship with the “Father of the Taliban,” and to see if this 84-year-old man has plans to slow down. Below is an edited transcript of the interview.

CP: Brother Andrew, your story usually starts with you smuggling Bibles behind the Iron Curtain. Half a century later, are we still forced to smuggle Bibles anywhere in the world?

Brother Andrew: Smuggling still goes on, on a lesser scale but maybe even greater importance in the closed countries. But indeed my first book, God’s Smuggler, that all dealt with smuggling to the communistic countries. Fewer Christians ask me for Bibles compared to the communist countries, because with communism they were in countries where there were a church and the Bibles were taken away. So there was an immediate need and outcry for Bibles. In the Muslim world, there is no strong church, and there is no great need compared to the communist countries for Bibles. But the need is still there and increasingly because Muslims are coming to Christ and Muslims are asking for Bibles, so we are still in the same business.

CP: I heard you share that when you were smuggling Bibles you would actually pile Bibles on the passenger seat and pray that God would cover the eyes of the authorities checking your car. How could modern-day Christians in the Western world apply that test of faith to their everyday life?

Brother Andrew: Our faith is tested on so many levels every day, and of course Bible smuggling is only a small part of the Christian life of some Christians. The point is in our operations we would not rely on our cleverness, on our invention. It still every time has to be a miracle of God, God’s intervention, and if you try to make it fool proof, drive through with your Bibles, where and when and how it gets there, God has the glory. There must be something that God has to do in your life

CP: I’m curious who is your faith hero? Who do you aspire to be more like in terms of your faith?

Brother Andrew: I only have one example, that’s Jesus. My Jesus. We have to become like him. Fortunately God in His graciousness surrounded all of us with lots of examples that we think ‘only if I could be more like him or her,’ then it becomes a matter of prayer. If you look around you, you see people every day and you see a certain quality, certain attitude, certain disposition that you think ‘Oh, I wish that were mine,” then on the basis of Romans 8:34 you can go to God and ask, “Lord, could I have that in my life?” So that is the cycle of Christian growth that has greatly helped me.

CP: How do you personally pray for the persecuted Church?

Brother Andrew: Let me first tell you what I don’t pray. I don’t pray that God will lift the persecution because if there is persecution there is a plan that God has, otherwise God wouldn’t allow it. So do we understand why this persecution? When we read the Bible, all the Bible’s characters met with at least opposition. Our problem is that if we have a little opposition we call it persecution. That is ridiculous. Every Christian is tested; every Christian has and has to have opposition.

How do we pray? Not for God to remove persecution, but use that to purify the Church. And it is my strong belief that the countries where there is persecution are stronger in faith than churches in countries where there is no persecution—whether it is your country or my country (Netherlands). And there will come a time, maybe it has come already, where we will depend on our survival on the faith and input of the church that is now persecuted. They are standing strongly in the storm; we write and speak about them because we admire them. They have qualities that I wish we had: the perseverance of faith. They don’t have Bibles often and they don’t have liberty. But do we need all this liberty that we take for granted in order to function as the Church? And of course the answer is no.

The Church thrives under pressure, that was the very birth of the Church. They were persecuted in Jerusalem and all over. Look at it a different way, what does the Bible say, how do I pray? That whatever happens in the world, the Church will be revived in our countries and be spared from apostasy and unbelief, but God’s way may well be a good dose of persecution because that is good medicine for the soul. At the same time having said that, there can be so much persecution that the Church ceases to exist, like that happened in North Africa and in other places, but these are exceptions. The church in China is of course a glorious example of the biggest, fastest growing church in the world, but we don’t know nearly as much about the church in China as we do about the church in America.

CP: What is it like to be a Christian in countries like Somalia or North Korea or Iran?

Brother Andrew: I think it’s just about the ultimate test of your faith and by the people involved, it’s often experienced as a privilege. In the Scripture, especially in Acts, they went out after being arrested and beaten and they went rejoicing because they were worthy to suffer for the name of Jesus. I think it’s a great privilege, but it’s not something you seek, because then that is the wrong attitude. But when it comes over you, accept suffering as a good Christian, the Bible says. Don’t object, but use your God given rights, if you have anything left in that country. But one right they have, and they can never claim that right, is that they have a right to be prayed for. And our responsibility therefore is to get information on that person or group and pray and make it known in our publications, in our speaking, radio, television and articles so we open the way for God’s spirit to intervene.

CP: In my interview with Carl Moeller a few years ago, he shared with me that you have quite a few friends who are Hamas leaders and that you visited the most radical madrassa in Pakistan and gave a New Testament to the Islamic leader there. Tell us how these types of relationships are even possible when you are well-known as an evangelist?

Brother Andrew: What amazes me is people think this is not possible because everyone is open and radicals are often more open—although they appear to be against Christ. People who couldn’t care less—the man on the street—is harder to reach than the guy there who holds his reins and is known as a radical or a terrorist—which is a terrible word. I believe there are no terrorists because terrorists are not born—except my children were born, I thought they were terrorists for a long time, now we are good friends (laughs). Terrorists are made and it so strikes me that they have the right to complain that no one cared for my soul and that for me is the perfect setting of the making of a terrorist. Nobody cares for your soul, everybody writes you off, then you become a terrorist.

Let’s go there because they have the first right to hear who Jesus Christ is. That is my starting point, I go to them. You mentioned one or two, but as it happens I know all of them. I just came back a few days ago from visiting the Taliban, and I gave the “Father of the Taliban” a brand new Bible, an Arab Bible in same kind of cover and use of language as the Quran, but fully the story of the Bible and the Sharif Bible. And he was so happy with it and he looked at me and said, “You have given me books before.” And I said, “Yes a lot of them. I hope you are reading them to your students.” But that one he opened it, in the middle of his staff, teachers and sons and grandsons and began to read aloud the Bible I had given him. He was so grateful and we were happy that we could give that to him. Never write off anybody, you’ll be surprised how everyone that I have met is open to receive the messenger of God. Let’s then not write off anyone because that is how you and I got saved—God hadn’t written us off. We had every reason to be written off, but God didn’t. We must not write off any person Jesus died for, if that becomes our foreign policy then our foreign policy might be a lot different than it is today.

CP: You have gone to war-torn countries and evangelized people who are in the midst of war, and you’ve probably seen people you’ve evangelized died. How are you able to believe in a good and loving God that is in control despite the horrendous things that have happened to people you love?

Brother Andrew: (Sigh) Everyone has a price to pay. When I think of Afghanistan, because it is so much in the news, I still have a church function in Afghanistan and in Iran, and with a church officially, but of the people in Afghanistan alone that I’ve baptized or some ordained for the ministry, at least 12 or 14 have been killed already. And when that news filters through to my office, I just sit and cry because it hurts very much. But if that should stop me, that is just what the devil wants. I must step up my efforts and do more to win others because in the numbers and influence of more Christians lies the solution for political and religious and for the racial conflicts. So we know the solution, but we don’t apply it. We still rely on diplomacy—it could be good sometimes—we rely on military, I can’t see how that can be good anytime, but that is my personal view because I’ve seen too much of what it does. And I have been in the war five years during Hitler time, the Nazis who occupy my country and my village and my schools. I’ve been in the war in the Far East for four years. I’ve been visiting a lot in Vietnam; I have been all along through the Vietnam War, one month every year, and I still hear General Westmoreland’s say—by the way I was a war correspondent in Vietnam—he said to us, the soldiers and correspondents, “There is not a situation where we cannot handle.” Oh boy, now you think of 1975 how they ran out of Vietnam, how they fled and whoever orchestrated that, he got big Nobel Price for Peace with honor. It’s topsy-turvy world, there is no righteousness, no principle, no respect for people who think and believe differently. We have another ballgame, so to speak—be witnesses for Jesus, doesn’t mean a pacifist—then you put a label on people. I am certainly not a pacifist, but I believe in righteousness and I want to continue that, whatever the cost to even my own self. One day I may die. You may hear Brother Andrew killed in an accident or whatever or shooting. It’s okay, I’m ready.

CP: One last question, you’re 84-years-old, going on to 85 soon, and you’re still very active. Do you plan to retire soon?

Brother Andrew: What is that retire? Does that mean no tires on? Put new tires on and go another round? I think in serving God there is no retirement, but if you notice you can’t do it anymore or your thoughts don’t work or your memory, your hearing, whatever, then I think it’s time to quit. But I will never sit in the garden and watch geraniums. I think they will die if I watch them. As long as I can, as long as I have a voice and a pen, and co-workers, I want to continue. I have no set date, if I can’t do it anymore, then it’s over.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

Alguns Benefícios da Oração Pessoal


Uma compilação

Um dos frutos da oração, além dos resultados e das respostas visíveis é o efeito e o fruto na sua vida e no seu espírito. O ato de derramar o coração para Mim o mantém próximo de Mim, fervoroso, no Meu Espírito, e o protege de influências negativas. A oração é uma das suas maiores proteções, e contribui para manter limpos o seu coração e espírito.—Jesus, falando em profecia[1]

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Por que orar? Eu tenho feito essa pergunta praticamente todos os dias desde que me tornei cristão, principalmente quando Deus parece estar longe e fico me perguntando se a oração é um ato religioso de diálogo interior. Já fiz essa pergunta durante uma leitura de teor teológico, indagando de que adianta ficar repetindo algo que Deus já deve saber. Minhas conclusões vão se desenrolar gradualmente, mas começo aqui porque a oração para mim se tornou muito mais do que uma lista de pedidos, como uma lista de compras, a serem atendidos por Deus. Ela se tornou um realinhamento de tudo. Oro para que a verdade seja restaurada no universo, para eu ter um vislumbre do mundo, e de mim, para ter a perspectiva de Deus.—Philip Yancey [2]

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A oração acima de tudo nos permite observar o nosso próprio coração e alinhá-lo ao coração de Deus. A oração não é um monólogo no qual nos imaginamos tendo comunhão com Deus. Pelo contrário, é um diálogo por meio do qual Deus molda o nosso coração e torna realidade o sonho dEle para nós. É sem dúvida um tesouro o seguidor de Jesus poder receber respostas tanto objetivas como subjetivas, e assim começar a amar a Deus por quem Ele é, não pelo que pode nos proporcionar.—Ravi Zacharias[3]

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A oração é uma expressão do que nós somos -- um espaço incompleto em movimento. Somos uma lacuna, um vazio em busca de realização. —Thomas Merton

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Eu oro por necessidade, pois preciso me lembrar que existe algo lá em cima e que é bom. Oro para ser ouvida, mas, na realidade, o ato da oração na minha vida tem uma profundidade única. O ato e a atitude de oração me reconectam com algo que muitas vezes escapa das minhas mãos, algo que pode ser puxado como um barbante. A oração amarra o barbante de novo. A oração diz: Eu sei que você está aí; acredito em você; vou conseguir, sei que você é bom. Orar é admitir que existe algo ais além do que consigo ver e fazer. Existe algo por trás de tudo o que é possível ver.—Shauna Niequist[4]

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Na oração eu separo o meu ponto de vista do meu egoísmo. Escalo acima das árvores e olho para mim mesmo lá embaixo, minúsculo como um grão de poeira. Contemplo as estrelas e me lembro do meu papel e do papel de cada um de nós em um universo que vai além da compreensão. Oração é ver a realidade pela ótica de Deus.—Philip Yancey[5]

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A oração nos faz trilhar o caminho iluminado por Deus e nos capacita a reconhecer com convicção: “Sou humano, e você é Deus.”—Henri Nouwen

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Depois que começamos a caminhar com Deus precisamos apenas continuar a caminhada com Ele e a vida será um longo passeio, causando uma sensação maravilhosa.—Etty Hillesum

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Assim como as asas para o pássaro e as velas para o barco, também a oração é para a alma.—Corrie ten Boom

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Orar pelos outros está totalmente relacionado ao amor. É o amor colocado em ação no espírito. Você não apenas pensa na pessoa e quer ajudá-la, mas faz algo concreto por meio da oração.

Oração de intercessão requer doação em amor. Aumenta o seu amor pela pessoa por quem ora. O seu amor o leva a clamar a Mim para ajudá-la.

Um dos resultados mais lindos é que ao orar pelos outros passa a ter uma visão mais altruísta, enche o seu coração com mais amor pela pessoa, porque o seu amor por ela o faz querer ajudá-la. Orar por alguém o mantém fervoroso por essa pessoa, de modo que a sua vida não gira só em torno de você. Você estende a mão e Me pede para ajudar alguém mais.

Orar dessa maneira é um exemplo de abnegação, de dar mais valor aos outros do que a si mesmo. É amor em ação. Você ultrapassa as suas próprias necessidades e intercede por alguém. E como você se esforça para ajudar os outros, Eu recompenso o seu sacrifício e amor usando as orações para mudar e melhorar a sua vida também. Além disso, se alguém sabe que você é fiel em orar por ele, também o apoiará em oração quando você precisar.

Orar é uma maneira de se doar altruisticamente sem esperar nada em troca, mas rende dividendos. Experimente e os sentirá.—Jesus falando em profecia[6]

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Eu acredito que quando oramos pelos outros Deus enche nossos corações de doçura e ternura, porque estamos nos comunicando com Aquele que é misericórdia plena, beleza e amor totais, onipotente, e a gentileza em sua plenitude. Quando oramos a Deus, Ele nos transforma e nos torna semelhantes a Ele.—Frank Alcamo

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Por que na Bíblia o Senhor constantemente nos admoesta a orar, sendo que Ele, melhor do que ninguém, sabe o que precisamos e os pedidos que vamos Lhe fazer em oração? Às vezes, Ele até diz que antes de orarmos Ele responderá. Devemos orar principalmente para benefício próprio, não de Deus. Ao orarmos estamos reconhecendo que dependemos de Deus.—David Brandt Berg

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Nas asas da oração nossos fardos se vão
E nossos cuidados leves se tornam,
Nosso coração pesado ao alto é levado
e pelo bálsamo do maravilhoso amor de Deus é curado.
O Pai amoroso entende nossos problemas, medos e angústia,
E nossas lágrimas por Ele secas são,
Quando Lhe entregamos tudo nas asas da oração.
—Helen Steiner Rice

Publicado no Âncora em fevereiro de 2013.
Tradução Hebe Rondon Flandoli. Revisão Denise Oliveira.


[1] De http://anchor.tfionline.com/pt/post/o-que-oracao-faz/, Março 2011.

[2] Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference? (Zondervan, 2010).

[3] The Grand Weaver (Zondervan, 2010).

[4] Cold Tangerines: Celebrating the Extraordinary Nature of Everyday Life (Zondervan, 2010).

[5] Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference? (Zondervan, 2010).

[6] Publicado originalmente em 2000.

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

As Melhores Coisas na Vida Tomam Tempo

Jesus, falando em profecia

Fiz com que a maioria das realizações na vida fosse fruto de trabalho constante e confiança em Mim para o resultado. Raramente realiza-se algo grandioso da noite para o dia. Quando isto acontece, geralmente ou é o ponta pé inicial de um projeto ou a coroação de um longo período de paciência.

Olhe só a Igreja Primitiva. Derramei o poder sobrenatural no Dia de Pentecostes, e dentro de duas semanas dei aos primeiros discípulos milhares de convertidos. Mas, depois disso, o progresso foi mais lento e constante, conforme avançaram gradualmente compartilhando a Minha mensagem em uma cidade de cada vez, ganhando uma alma de cada vez.

Em outros casos, o grande milagre aconteceu no final de um longo período de espera e perseverança, como o nascimento de um neném. É no trabalho de parto que as coisas se movem rápido em comparação com a demorada gravidez – e bum, um dia, de repente, você tem um neném. Mas passam-se meses e meses até isso acontecer. A a mãe e o pai esperam pacientemente o bebê crescer, aceitando o tempo que Eu determinei para as coisas acontecerem naturalmente e esperando os resultados no momento que Eu decidir ser melhor.

Assim como acontece com a natureza e o nascimento de um neném, colhe bom fruto aquele que aceita as tarefas que ponho à sua frente. A vida requer paciência, e as melhores coisas na vida muitas vezes levam tempo para dar fruto. Você precisa ter fé de que o trabalho consistente e diário que investe nos projetos e empreendimentos vai dar resultado, e que será bem sucedido no final.

É fácil ficar impaciente com a demora para fazer as coisas, tais como o tempo necessário para adquirir um novo hábito, treinar uma criança, montar uma boa equipe, ou estabelecer um trabalho duradouro. Tudo parece ir muito devagar e você é tentado a pensar, “Ora, se chegamos até aqui e ainda não conseguimos, será que um sequer conseguiremos?!” É uma tentação desistir por conta do desanimo ou buscar uma maneira mais fácil e rápida.

Quero encorajá-lo a perseverar em seja o que for que Eu tenha lhe mostrado ser a Minha vontade para você. Não sou um Deus impaciente. Não julgo o sucesso de um empreendimento apenas pelo fruto imediato. Minha medida de que algo vale ou não a pena todo o trabalho que está investindo é o potencial que tem, não necessariamente o que é no momento ou o que foi no passado.

Muitas vezes vejo que algo tem potencial para crescer e ser fonte de grandes bênçãos para você, se não desistir cedo demais por falta de resultados óbvios. Mas por favor, não perca a paciência e desista das bênçãos que estão por vir! Não quero que seu trabalho árduo seja desperdiçado! Em vez de julgar as coisas com pressa, buscando apenas os sinais óbvios de fruto para se encorajar, busque a Mim. Peça-Me para lhe mostrar o potencial do seu trabalho tornar, o que aquela criança pode ser ao crescer, quão forte e frutífero o seu casamento pode ser, ou como seria um trabalho frutífero e próspero em sua cidade, ou que aliança linda e duradoura sua equipe pode formar, se você apenas aguentar firme e tiver paciência.

As melhores coisas na vida tomam tempo. Você precisa de paciência para receber grandes recompensas. Se fizer progresso lento e sólido em direção ao que quer, terá êxito. E como os seres humanos parecem querer tudo “pra ontem”, a maneira de resistir à tendência de ficar desencorajado caso as coisas demorem mais do que esperava é apoiar-se na fé e nas promessas que lhe dou. Eu tenho a paciência que talvez lhe falte, e estou disposto a esperar e guiar você e seu projeto devagar e sempre, por passos certos.

Não tenho problema com os períodos de espera pois sei que o resultado final valerá a pena o tempo investido. E você pode ser fortalecido em fé ao se comprometer a seguir o Meu cronograma, mesmo que se sinta inquieto. Com a Minha ajuda, vai conseguir perseverar nos projetos que Eu lhe mostrar serem da Minha vontade, mesmo quando achar que não estão dando um retorno tão rápido como gostaria.

É preciso fé para confiar que estou em você e nas suas investidas. Requer muita fé, e sua tendência às vezes é desistir, dar meia volta, fazer outra coisa, ou simplesmente parar. É natural sentir-se assim, mas o natural e o normal não vão lhe dar os resultados sobrenaturais e extraordinários que busca.

Se desistir quando as coisas ficarem difíceis e progredirem lentamente, então estará limitado apenas a obter as vitórias ganhas rapidamente. O ouro depurado é resultado do processo de refinamento no fogo, e as maiores belezas da vida chegam quando se tem paciência para esperar por elas.

Deixe-Me encorajá-lo de que mesmo sentindo que não tem paciência ou forças para continuar fazendo algumas coisas na vida sem perder a visão ou se cansar, Eu tenho mais força e paciência para lhe dar. Se Me incluir na situação e Me pedir para ajudá-lo a manter os olhos na meta e encher o seu coração com a glória da vitória por vir, Eu o ajudarei a perseverar para não desistir prematuramente, antes da vitória ser ganha.

Você talvez queira ver progresso e sinais de fruto para ficar encorajado, mas confie em Mim e que os resultados estão lá no futuro se você seguir em frente. Então, se conectar-se à fé e expectativa que tenho, terá mais confiança, e não vai fazer muita diferença como as coisas parecem no momento, contanto continue seguindo pelo caminho que determinei. Saberá que futuras recompensas farão com que tudo valha a pena.

Você muitas vezes não sabe quando está a ponto de colher os frutos de sua longa labuta, e seria uma vergonha desistir antes de conquistar a vitória. Talvez ache que está apenas na metade do caminho e que tem pelo menos ainda o mesmo tanto para seguir, mas a resposta pode estar a apenas mais um passo de distância, uns poucos dias ou horas, se você simplesmente aguentar firme.

Seja qual for o caso, e seja qual for a vitória, quer esteja próxima quer longe, tenho paciência para levá-lo a ela inspirado e cheio de coragem e visão. Não vou apenas ajudá-lo a suportar o período de espera até a vitória, mas vou ajudá-lo a desfrutar da jornada até ela e por todo o caminho. Posso ajudá-lo a ver o bem que já existe ao seu redor, as coisas que já estão se encaixando, e todos os sinais da Minha bênção, mesmo se a resposta principal, ou o resultado ou meta que busca só forem se concretizar no futuro.

Sempre há sinais de progresso se você buscá-los. Às vezes são pequenos sinais, mas estão lá. Você pode até ver a grama crescer se for fiel o suficiente em medi-la. E posso ajudá-lo a ver esses pequenos indicadores de progresso e ser encorajado por eles enquanto espera o resultado final.

A vida é assim—requer tempo. Leva tempo para Eu executar a Minha melhor obra na natureza, e requer tempo para Eu operar da melhor maneira possível nos corações e vidas das pessoas. Quanto antes você perder o hábito de querer tudo imediatamente e precisar de sinais visíveis e instantâneos de fruto, mais capaz será de relaxar e entrar em um ritmo mais segundo Deus, e confiar que sua labuta paciente está compensando, e até desfrutar das coisas como são no momento, neste estágio da jornada. Há muitas bênçãos ao seu redor no momento se você buscá-las.

Se fizer a sua parte trabalhando lenta e fielmente nos seus projetos e desafios de longo prazo, e tiver a fé de que cada coisinha que faz um dia virá a formar um grande todo, farei a Minha parte de dar o crescimento e a bênção. Quanto mais tempo levar para alcançar sua meta, mais doce será quando conseguir.

Se as suas metas forem as Minhas, quer leve pouco ou muito tempo, a resposta e a vitória valerão a pena, e as recompensas e a gratificação valerão cada empenho, esforço e paciência.

Publicado em Âncora em fevereiro de 2013.
Tradução Denise Oliveira. Revisão Hebe Rondon Flandoli.



Postado em: Fé, Paciência, Perseverança, Seguir a Deus

Love Is a Do Thing

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Love is a do thing. It’s an energy that has to be dissipated.—Bob Goff1

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We don’t have to engage in grand, heroic actions to participate in the process of change. Small acts, when multiplied by millions of people, can transform the world.—Howard Zinn

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Do not think that love in order to be genuine has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired. Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.—Mother Teresa

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Service is love made visible. If you love friends, you will serve your friends. If you love community, you will serve your community. If you love money, you will serve your money. And if you love only yourself, you will serve only yourself, and you will have only yourself. … Instead, try to love others, and serve others, and hopefully find those who will love and serve you in return.—Stephen Colbert2

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Familiar acts are beautiful through love.—Percy Bysshe Shelley

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You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.—Zig Ziglar

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Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.—Mother Teresa

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A particularly overlooked aspect of the art of gratitude is the habit of noticing. When we notice others and show our appreciation, it pays huge dividends. Additionally, by noticing others we become more attuned to life’s vitality, intensity, and diversity.—Michael McKinney

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Like most of us, you can probably look forward to some extra attention on your birthday and certain other special occasions. But doesn’t it make you feel especially loved when, out of the blue, someone does some loving thing for you for no other reason than because he or she loves you?

Why not do the same for others? If you stop to think about it, you’d probably be surprised at how many thoughtful little things you could find to do for others that would cost almost nothing and take almost no time. Want to transform your relationships with family, friends, and workmates? Become a master of the five-minute favor.—Shannon Shaylor3

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Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God's kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.—Mother Teresa

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I heard a self-help guy say once you could look in the mirror and give yourself something he called positive affirmations, like saying to yourself you are good or smart or talented. I don’t know if that works, to be honest. Maybe it does. But I do know one thing that works every time—it’s having somebody else say something good about you.

Words of encouragement are like that. They have their own power. And when they are said by the right people, they can change everything. What I’ve found in following Jesus is that most of the time, when it comes to who says it, we each are the right people. And I’ve concluded something else. That the words people say to us not only have shelf life but have the ability to shape life.—Bob Goff4

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When you live on your own for years, you begin to think the world belongs to you. You begin to think all space is your space and all time is your time.

It is like in that movie About a Boy where Nick Hornby's chief character, played by Hugh Grant, believes that life is a play about himself, that all other characters are only acting minor roles in a story that centers around him. My life felt like that. Life was a story about me because I was in every scene. In fact, I was the only one in every scene. I was everywhere I went. If somebody walked into my scene, it would frustrate me because they were disrupting the general theme of the play, namely my comfort or glory.

[And then] a friend and I traveled to Salem to hear Brennan Manning speak. … He opened his talk with the story of Zacchaeus. Brennan talked about how an entire town, with their ridicule and hatred, could not keep the little man from oppressing them through the extravagant financial gains he made as a tax collector. Christ walked through town, Brennan said, and spotted the man. Christ told Zacchaeus that He would like to have a meal with him.

In the single conversation Christ had with Zacchaeus, Brennan reminded us, Jesus spoke affirmation and love, and the tax collector sold his possessions and made amends to those he had robbed. It was the affection of Christ, not the brutality of a town, that healed Zacchaeus.

Manning went on to speak of the great danger of a harsh word, the power of unlove to deteriorate a person’s heart and spirit, and how, as representatives of the grace and love of God, our communication should be seasoned with love and compassion.

While Manning was speaking, I was being shown myself, and I felt like God was asking me to change. I was being asked to walk away from the lies I believed about the world being about me. I had been communicating unlove to my housemates because I thought they were not cooperating with the meaning of life, that meaning being my desire and will and choice and comfort.—Donald Miller5

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“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

“The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’”—Matthew 25:31–406



Published on Anchor February 2013.



1 Love Does (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2012).

2 Commencement speech at Northwestern University, 2011.

3 Love’s Many Faces (Aurora Production, 2010).

4 Love Does (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2012).

5 Blue Like Jazz (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2003).

6 NIV.

Better TV Habits Can Lead to Better Behavior Among Children




By Bonnie Rochman, TIME, Feb. 18, 2013
If parents can’t limit their children’s TV time, then they can at least try to improve what youngsters are watching.

That’s the if-you-can’t-beat-them-join-them approach that researchers in Seattle took in trying to address the issue of how much TV children, including toddlers, watch every day. Despite admonitions from experts and an emerging body of research that suggests children shouldn’t be watching more than two hours a day, the typical U.S. tot spends about four and a half hours parked in front of a television daily. Campaigns to reduce this screen time have clearly been only minimally successful.

So by shifting the focus away from how much youngsters watch and concentrating instead on what they’re seeing, the researchers report in the journal Pediatrics on their success in helping parents to increase the time kids spent watching educational programming. The result? Better-behaved children.

“There is no question kids watch too much television at all ages,” says Dimitri Christakis, lead author and director of the Center for Child Health, Behavior and Development at Seattle Children’s Research Institute. “Part of the message is not just about turning off the television but about changing the channel.”

Kids are sponges who absorb their surroundings; it’s how they learn to develop the proper behaviors and responses to social situations. And they are not only parroting their parents and other family members, but mimicking behaviors they see on television or in movies as well. So Christakis, who has conducted extensive research on the effects of screen time on child development, explored ways to influence what shows children watch so that they’re more apt to imitate quality conduct. “We’ve known for decades that kids imitate what they see on TV,” he says. “They imitate good behaviors and they imitate bad behaviors.”

In the study, he and his colleagues tracked 617 families with kids between the ages of three and five. Half of the families agreed to go on a media “diet” and swap programming with more aggressive and violent content for educational, pro-social shows that encourage sharing, kindness and respect, such as Dora the Explorer, which teaches how to resolve conflicts, and Sesame Street, which models tolerance for diversity. The other families did not change their children’s viewing choices.

To help parents in the first group to choose appropriate shows, they received a program guide that highlighted prosocial content and learned how to block out violent programming. (The parents were so delighted with the guidance that many asked to continue receiving program guides even after the study ended.) They were also urged to watch alongside their kids. The researchers tracked what the children watched and also measured their behavior with standard tests of aggressiveness and sharing responses six months and a year into the study.

At both testing periods, the children in the first group watched less aggressive programming than they did at the beginning of the study compared to children in the control group. Both groups of kids upped their screen time a bit, but the first group saw more quality programs while the control group spent even more time watching violent shows.

Six months after the study began, the children who increased their pro-social viewing acted less aggressively and showed more sharing and respectful behaviors compared to the control group. They were more apt to compromise and cooperate than children who didn’t change their viewing content, and the effects persisted for the entire year that the study lasted. “There is a connection between what children watch, not just in terms of violence but in terms of improved behavior,” says Chistakis, who is also a professor of pediatrics at the University of Washington.

Who got the biggest boost in behavior? Low-income boys. “They derived the greatest benefit, which is interesting because they are most at risk of being victims and perpetrators of aggression,” he says


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It Rots the Senses in the Head! ---TV of course!

“The most important thing we've learned, So far as children are concerned, Is never, NEVER, NEVER let Them near your television set -- Or better still, just don't install The idiotic thing at all. In almost every house we've been, We've watched them gaping at the screen. They loll & slop & lounge about, And stare until their eyes pop out. (Last week in someone's place we saw A dozen eyeballs on the floor.) They sit & stare & stare & sit Until they're hypnotized by it, Until they're absolutely drunk With all that shocking ghastly junk. Oh yes, we know it keeps them still, They don't climb out the window sill, They never fight or kick or punch, They leave you free to cook the lunch And wash the dishes in the sink -- But did you ever stop to think, To wonder just exactly what This does to your beloved tot? IT ROTS THE SENSES IN THE HEAD! IT KILLS IMAGINATION DEAD! IT CLOGS & CLUTTERS UP THE MIND! IT MAKES A CHILD SO DULL & BLIND HE CAN NO LONGER UNDERSTAND A FANTASY, A FAIRYLAND! HIS BRAIN BECOMES AS SOFT AS CHEESE! HIS POWERS OF THINKING RUST & FREEZE! HE CANNOT THINK -- HE ONLY SEES! ‘All right!’ you'll cry. ‘All right!’ you'll say, ‘But if we take the set away, What shall we do to entertain Our darling children! Please explain!’ We'll answer this by asking you, What used the darling ones to do? How used they keep themselves contented Before this monster was invented?" Have you forgotten? Don't you know? We'll say it very loud & slow: THEY ... USED TO ... READ! They'd READ & READ, & READ & READ, And then proceed TO READ some more. Great Scott! Gadzooks! One-half their lives was reading books! The nursery shelves held books galore! Books cluttered up the nursery floor! And in the bedroom, by the bed, More books were waiting to be read! Such wondrous, fine, fantastic tales Of dragons, gypsies, queens, & whales And treasure isles, & distant shores Where smugglers rowed with muffled oars, And pirates wearing purple pants, And sailing ships & elephants, And cannibals crouching round the pot, Stirring away at something hot. (It smells so good, what can it be? Good gracious, it's Penelope.) The younger ones had Beatrix Potter With Mr. Tod, the dirty rotter, And Squirrel Nutkin, Pigling Bland, And Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle and -- Just How The Camel Got His Hump, And How The Monkey Lost His Rump, And Mr. Toad, & bless my soul, There's Mr. Rat & Mr. Mole -- Oh, books, what books they used to know, Those children living long ago! So please, oh please, we beg, we pray, Go throw your TV set away, And in its place you can install A lovely bookshelf on the wall. Then fill the shelves with lots of books, Ignoring all the dirty looks, The screams & yells, the bites & kicks, And children hitting you with sticks -- Fear not, because we promise you That, in about a week or two Of having nothing else to do, They'll now begin to feel the need Of having something good to read. And once they start -- oh boy, oh boy! You watch the slowly-growing joy That fills their hearts. They'll grow so keen They'll wonder what they'd ever seen In that ridiculous machine, That nauseating, foul, unclean. Repulsive television screen! And later, each & every kid Will love you more for what you did.” --sung by the Oompa-Loompas, in ‘Charlie & The Chocolate Factory,’ by Roald Dahl (1964)

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

For 40 Years, This Russian Family Was Cut Off From All Human Contact, Unaware of World War II





By Mike Dash, Smithsonian.com, January 29, 2013,
Siberian summers do not last long. The snows linger into May, and the cold weather returns again during September, freezing the taiga into a still life awesome in its desolation: endless miles of straggly pine and birch forests scattered with sleeping bears and hungry wolves; steep-sided mountains; white-water rivers that pour in torrents through the valleys; a hundred thousand icy bogs. This forest is the last and greatest of Earth’s wildernesses. It stretches from the furthest tip of Russia’s arctic regions as far south as Mongolia, and east from the Urals to the Pacific: five million square miles of nothingness, with a population, outside a handful of towns, that amounts to only a few thousand people.

When the warm days do arrive, though, the taiga blooms, and for a few short months it can seem almost welcoming. It is then that man can see most clearly into this hidden world—not on land, for the taiga can swallow whole armies of explorers, but from the air. Siberia is the source of most of Russia’s oil and mineral resources, and, over the years, even its most distant parts have been overflown by oil prospectors and surveyors on their way to backwoods camps where the work of extracting wealth is carried on.

Thus it was in the remote south of the forest in the summer of 1978. A helicopter sent to find a safe spot to land a party of geologists was skimming the treeline a hundred or so miles from the Mongolian border when it dropped into the thickly wooded valley of an unnamed tributary of the Abakan, a seething ribbon of water rushing through dangerous terrain. The valley walls were narrow, with sides that were close to vertical in places, and the skinny pine and birch trees swaying in the rotors’ downdraft were so thickly clustered that there was no chance of finding a spot to set the aircraft down. But, peering intently through his windscreen in search of a landing place, the pilot saw something that should not have been there. It was a clearing, 6,000 feet up a mountainside, wedged between the pine and larch and scored with what looked like long, dark furrows. The baffled helicopter crew made several passes before reluctantly concluding that this was evidence of human habitation—a garden that, from the size and shape of the clearing, must have been there for a long time.

It was an astounding discovery. The mountain was more than 150 miles from the nearest settlement, in a spot that had never been explored. The Soviet authorities had no records of anyone living in the district.

The four scientists sent into the district to prospect for iron ore were told about the pilots’ sighting, and it perplexed and worried them. “It’s less dangerous,” the writer Vasily Peskov notes of this part of the taiga, “to run across a wild animal than a stranger,” and rather than wait at their own temporary base, 10 miles away, the scientists decided to investigate. Led by a geologist named Galina Pismenskaya, they “chose a fine day and put gifts in our packs for our prospective friends”—though, just to be sure, she recalled, “I did check the pistol that hung at my side.”

As the intruders scrambled up the mountain, heading for the spot pinpointed by their pilots, they began to come across signs of human activity: a rough path, a staff, a log laid across a stream, and finally a small shed filled with birch-bark containers of cut-up dried potatoes. Then, Pismenskaya said,

beside a stream there was a dwelling. Blackened by time and rain, the hut was piled up on all sides with taiga rubbish—bark, poles, planks. If it hadn’t been for a window the size of my backpack pocket, it would have been hard to believe that people lived there. But they did, no doubt about it…. Our arrival had been noticed, as we could see.

The low door creaked, and the figure of a very old man emerged into the light of day, straight out of a fairy tale. Barefoot. Wearing a patched and repatched shirt made of sacking. He wore trousers of the same material, also in patches, and had an uncombed beard. His hair was disheveled. He looked frightened and was very attentive…. We had to say something, so I began: ‘Greetings, grandfather! We’ve come to visit!’

The old man did not reply immediately…. Finally, we heard a soft, uncertain voice: ‘Well, since you have traveled this far, you might as well come in.’

The sight that greeted the geologists as they entered the cabin was like something from the middle ages. Jerry-built from whatever materials came to hand, the dwelling was not much more than a burrow—“a low, soot-blackened log kennel that was as cold as a cellar,” with a floor consisting of potato peel and pine-nut shells. Looking around in the dim light, the visitors saw that it consisted of a single room. It was cramped, musty and indescribably filthy, propped up by sagging joists—and, astonishingly, home to a family of five.

The silence was suddenly broken by sobs and lamentations. Only then did we see the silhouettes of two women. One was in hysterics, praying: ‘This is for our sins, our sins.’ The other, keeping behind a post… sank slowly to the floor. The light from the little window fell on her wide, terrified eyes, and we realized we had to get out of there as quickly as possible.

Led by Pismenskaya, the scientists backed hurriedly out of the hut and retreated to a spot a few yards away, where they took out some provisions and began to eat. After about half an hour, the door of the cabin creaked open, and the old man and his two daughters emerged—no longer hysterical and, though still obviously frightened, “frankly curious.” Warily, the three strange figures approached and sat down with their visitors, rejecting everything that they were offered—jam, tea, bread—with a muttered, “We are not allowed that!” When Pismenskaya asked, “Have you ever eaten bread?” the old man answered: “I have. But they have not. They have never seen it.” At least he was intelligible. The daughters spoke a language distorted by a lifetime of isolation. “When the sisters talked to each other, it sounded like a slow, blurred cooing.”

Slowly, over several visits, the full story of the family emerged. The old man’s name was Karp Lykov, and he was an Old Believer—a member of a fundamentalist Russian Orthodox sect, worshiping in a style unchanged since the 17th century. Old Believers had been persecuted since the days of Peter the Great, and Lykov talked about it as though it had happened only yesterday; for him, Peter was a personal enemy and “the anti-Christ in human form”—a point he insisted had been amply proved by Tsar’s campaign to modernize Russia by forcibly “chopping off the beards of Christians.”

Things had only got worse for the Lykov family when the atheist Bolsheviks took power. Under the Soviets, isolated Old Believer communities that had fled to Siberia to escape persecution began to retreat ever further from civilization. During the purges of the 1930s, with Christianity itself under assault, a Communist patrol had shot Lykov’s brother on the outskirts of their village while Lykov knelt working beside him. He had responded by scooping up his family and bolting into forest.

That was in 1936, and there were only four Lykovs then—Karp; his wife, Akulina; a son named Savin, 9 years old, and Natalia, a daughter who was only 2. Taking their possessions and some seeds, they had retreated ever deeper into the taiga, building themselves a succession of crude dwelling places, until at last they had fetched up in this desolate spot. Two more children had been born in the wild—Dmitry in 1940 and Agafia in 1943—and neither of the youngest Lykov children had ever seen a human being who was not a member of their family. All that Agafia and Dmitry knew of the outside world they learned entirely from their parents’ stories. The family’s principal entertainment, the Russian journalist Vasily Peskov noted, “was for everyone to recount their dreams.”

The Lykov children knew there were places called cities where humans lived crammed together in tall buildings. They had heard there were countries other than Russia. But such concepts were no more than abstractions to them. Their only reading matter was prayer books and an ancient family Bible. Akulina had used the gospels to teach her children to read and write, using sharpened birch sticks dipped into honeysuckle juice as pen and ink. When Agafia was shown a picture of a horse, she recognized it from her mother’s Bible stories. “Look, papa,” she exclaimed. “A steed!”

But if the family’s isolation was hard to grasp, the unmitigated harshness of their lives was not. Traveling to the Lykov homestead on foot was astonishingly arduous, even with the help of a boat along the Abakan. On his first visit to the Lykovs, Peskov—who would appoint himself the family’s chief chronicler—noted that “we traversed 250 kilometres [155 miles] without seeing a single human dwelling!”

Isolation made survival in the wilderness close to impossible. Dependent solely on their own resources, the Lykovs struggled to replace the few things they had brought into the taiga with them. They fashioned birch-bark galoshes in place of shoes. Clothes were patched and repatched until they fell apart, then replaced with hemp cloth grown from seed.

The Lykovs had carried a crude spinning wheel and, incredibly, the components of a loom into the taiga with them—moving these from place to place as they gradually went further into the wilderness must have required many long and arduous journeys—but they had no technology for replacing metal. A couple of kettles served them well for many years, but when rust finally overcame them, the only replacements they could fashion came from birch bark. Since these could not be placed in a fire, it became far harder to cook. By the time the Lykovs were discovered, their staple diet was potato patties mixed with ground rye and hemp seeds.

In some respects, Peskov makes clear, the taiga did offer some abundance: “Beside the dwelling ran a clear, cold stream. Stands of larch, spruce, pine and birch yielded all that anyone could take…. Bilberries and raspberries were close to hand, firewood as well, and pine nuts fell right on the roof.”

Yet the Lykovs lived permanently on the edge of famine. It was not until the late 1950s, when Dmitry reached manhood, that they first trapped animals for their meat and skins. Lacking guns and even bows, they could hunt only by digging traps or pursuing prey across the mountains until the animals collapsed from exhaustion. Dmitry built up astonishing endurance, and could hunt barefoot in winter, sometimes returning to the hut after several days, having slept in the open in 40 degrees of frost, a young elk across his shoulders. More often than not, though, there was no meat, and their diet gradually became more monotonous. Wild animals destroyed their crop of carrots, and Agafia recalled the late 1950s as “the hungry years.” “We ate the rowanberry leaf,” she said, “roots, grass, mushrooms, potato tops, and bark, We were hungry all the time. Every year we held a council to decide whether to eat everything up or leave some for seed.”

Famine was an ever-present danger in these circumstances, and in 1961 it snowed in June. The hard frost killed everything growing in their garden, and by spring the family had been reduced to eating shoes and bark. Akulina chose to see her children fed, and that year she died of starvation. The rest of the family were saved by what they regarded as a miracle: a single grain of rye sprouted in their pea patch. The Lykovs put up a fence around the shoot and guarded it zealously night and day to keep off mice and squirrels. At harvest time, the solitary spike yielded 18 grains, and from this they painstakingly rebuilt their rye crop.

As the Soviet geologists got to know the Lykov family, they realized that they had underestimated their abilities and intelligence. Each family member had a distinct personality; Old Karp was usually delighted by the latest innovations that the scientists brought up from their camp, and though he steadfastly refused to believe that man had set foot on the moon, he adapted swiftly to the idea of satellites. The Lykovs had noticed them as early as the 1950s, when “the stars began to go quickly across the sky,” and Karp himself conceived a theory to explain this: “People have thought something up and are sending out fires that are very like stars.”

“What amazed him most of all,” Peskov recorded, “was a transparent cellophane package. ‘Lord, what have they thought up—it is glass, but it crumples!’” His eldest child, Savin, cast himself as the family’s unbending arbiter in matters of religion. “He was strong of faith, but a harsh man,” his own father said of him, and Karp seems to have worried about what would happen to his family after he died if Savin took control. Certainly the eldest son would have encountered little resistance from Natalia, who always struggled to replace her mother as cook, seamstress and nurse.

The two younger children, on the other hand, were more approachable and more open to change and innovation. “Fanaticism was not terribly marked in Agafia,” Peskov said, and in time he came to realize that the youngest of the Lykovs had a sense of irony and could poke fun at herself. Agafia was markedly intelligent, and took charge of the difficult task, in a family that possessed no calendars, of keeping track of time. She thought nothing of hard work, either, excavating a new cellar by hand late in the fall and working on by moonlight when the sun had set. Asked by an astonished Peskov whether she was not frightened to be out alone in the wilderness after dark, she replied: “What would there be out here to hurt me?”

Of all the Lykovs, though, the geologists’ favorite was Dmitry, a consummate outdoorsman who knew all of the taiga’s moods. He was the most curious and perhaps the most forward-looking member of the family. It was he who had built the family stove, and all the birch-bark buckets that they used to store food. It was also Dmitry who spent days hand-cutting and hand-planing each log that the Lykovs felled. Perhaps it was no surprise that he was also the most enraptured by the scientists’ technology. Once relations had improved to the point that the Lykovs could be persuaded to visit the Soviets’ camp, downstream, he spent many happy hours in its little sawmill, marveling at how easily a circular saw and lathes could finish wood. “It’s not hard to figure,” Peskov wrote. “The log that took Dmitry a day or two to plane was transformed into handsome, even boards before his eyes. Dmitry felt the boards with his palm and said: ‘Fine!’”

Karp Lykov fought a long and losing battle with himself to keep all this modernity at bay. When they first got to know the geologists, the family would accept only a single gift—salt. (Living without it for four decades, Karp said, had been “true torture.”) Over time, however, they began to take more. They welcomed the assistance of their special friend among the geologists—a driller named Yerofei Sedov, who spent much of his spare time helping them to plant and harvest crops. They took knives, forks, handles, grain and eventually even pen and paper and an electric torch. Most of these innovations were only grudgingly acknowledged, but the sin of television, which they encountered at the geologists’ camp, proved irresistible for them…. On their rare appearances, they would invariably sit down and watch. Karp sat directly in front of the screen. Agafia watched poking her head from behind a door. She tried to pray away her transgression immediately—whispering, crossing herself…. The old man prayed afterward, diligently and in one fell swoop.

Perhaps the saddest aspect of the Lykovs’ strange story was the rapidity with which the family went into decline after they re-established contact with the outside world. In the fall of 1981, three of the four children followed their mother to the grave within a few days of one another. Both Savin and Natalia suffered from kidney failure, most likely a result of their harsh diet. But Dmitry died of pneumonia, which might have begun as an infection he acquired from his new friends.

His death shook the geologists, who tried desperately to save him. They offered to call in a helicopter and have him evacuated to a hospital. But Dmitry, in extremis, would abandon neither his family nor the religion he had practiced all his life. “We are not allowed that,” he whispered just before he died. “A man lives for howsoever God grants.”

When all three Lykovs had been buried, the geologists attempted to talk Karp and Agafia into leaving the forest and returning to be with relatives who had survived the persecutions of the purge years, and who still lived on in the same old villages. But neither of the survivors would hear of it. They rebuilt their old cabin, but stayed close to their old home.

Karp Lykov died in his sleep on February 16, 1988, 27 years to the day after his wife, Akulina. Agafia buried him on the mountain slopes with the help of the geologists, then turned and headed back to her home. The Lord would provide, and she would stay, she said—as indeed she has. A quarter of a century later, now in her seventies herself, this child of the taiga lives on alone, high above the Abakan.

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