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Monday, November 14, 2022

Communication Professor Reacts to David Blaine's Public Speaking Anxiety


Dennis Edwards: It's natural to fear Public Speaking, but you just have to do it. If you want more influence and or responsibility you've got to open your mouth and speak. The speakers end up being the leaders, not because they are smarter or have the right perspective, but only because the have that speaking ability. Therefore, push through your fear, practice and then force yourself into situations where you've got to speak! You've got something to give. Don't bottle it up inside. Open your mouth and God will fill it. 

Friday, November 6, 2020

How Can You Grow Your Platform and Become One That Instructs Many?

 

Dennis Edwards

God’s word tells us that in the last days there shall be those among the people  who have understanding and they shall instruct many.[1] How can we, Christians who have lived a life of service for God and others, often on difficult mission fields with much personal sacrifice; how can we who have studied and followed God’s word faithfully since our youth; how can we prepare ourselves to fulfill Daniel’s prophecy?  How can we prepare ourselves to instruct many?

Some years ago the famous American billionaire Warren Buffet was asked what advice he would give to a young college student, or a young person in order to  enhance their prospect of success and leadership in the open market. How could a young person improve their CVC? What talent should they develop to increase their opportunities in the job market and their success and influence as a leader?

Buffet responded that the number one attribute that increases one’s leadership potential and financial rewards  is public speaking. He continued that if a young person seriously wanted to improve his or her potential to realize a greater position of leadership and a higher pay bracket then he or she would need to improve his or her’s ability in public speaking. Public speaking was the number one asset to increased job and leadership possibilities.

The famous financial wizard, public speaker, and writer George Barnard Shaw (1856 – 1950) in his autobiographic essay “How I became a public speaker,” wrote on his own personal difficulty with public speaking. In order to overcome his timidity, Shaw forced himself into situations where he had to speak publically. He joined various debating clubs and pushed himself to face his fear of speaking in publc. At first, he made a fool of himself, as we all will do. But over time, his nerves cooled, his mind calmed, and he became one of the most sought after public speaker of his day.

Yale University offers its students a course on public speaking as do many other universities. Yale’s professor on Public Speaking emphasizes in his beginning lecture  that the two most important ways to increase our platform and therefore our influence on others is through improving our ability to speak publicly and or improving our writing ability. Many people that today are public speakers started out by writing a book. When the book became successful, it helped to launch them into a speaking career.

Does God’s word have anything to say about public speaking? We know that our ability to speak publicly or even on YouTube or on the telephone can increase our platform and influence. Could our ability to reach more people with the Gospel message with today’s modern technology be a fulfillment of Jesus’ prediction that His followers would do “greater things” than He did?

In the New Testament we see Apostle Peter cowarding and denying Christ thrice. However, after waiting and receiving the infilling of the Holy Spirit, Peter’s speaking ability, his boldness, his conviction become  powerful. The Jews that persecuted him took knowledge that he, a simple fisherman, had been with Jesus. Many of those Jews received Peter’s message. Though he had no theological training and was unlearned and ignorant in the eyes of the Jewish Sanhedrin,  yet suddenly his public speaking ability matched that of the learned Scribes and Pharisees. Peter’s time spent with Jesus and the infilling of the Holy Spirit were the keys to his public speaking.

Other men of God have been afflicted with fear of public speaking. Moses was one who had a stammer, a speech impediment. The Lord told him not to fear, but to have faith and He would take care of his stammering. In Exodus 4:10-13  we read,

And Moses said unto the Lord, O my Lord, I am not eloquent, neither heretofore, nor since thou hast spoken unto thy servant: but I am slow of speech, and of a slow tongue. And the Lord said unto him, Who has made man’s mouth? Or who makes the dumb, or deaf, or the seeing, or the blind? Have not I the Lord? Now therefore go, and I will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say.

But Moses didn’t believe. His fear of public speaking overtook him. God would have healed him had he believed. But Moses clung to his fear, and God was angry with him. Nevertheless, in compassion, God sent Aaron, Moses’ older brother,  to speak for him and be Moses’ voice to Pharoah.

The book of Acts records Apostle Paul’s successful public speaking encounters with Roman, Jewish, and Greek authorities. Nevertheless, in his 2nd letter to the Corinthians we see Paul refuting a belief held by some of the Corinthians that though “his letters … were weighty and powerful; …his bodily presence was weak, and his speech contemptible.”[2]

The Greeks had the tendency as maybe we all do to admire a man who spoke well especially if his physical appearance was becoming. Apostle Paul responded that “such as we are in word…such will we be also in deed when we are present.”[3] In other words, his speaking would be equal to his writing, and they were both powerful.

In the second part of Daniel chapter 11, which most Bible prophecy experts consider to be decribing the period of the Great Tribulation or “Jacob’s Trouble,” we find the words,

And they that understand among the people shall instruct many.[4]

God wants His people to be teachers instructing the world as many are deceived by the god of this world who has blinded their minds. How can we as God’s representatives “instruct many,” if we are not overcoming the common fear that many face, the fear of public speaking? Jesus has told us we will do greater things than He did. He told us that the baptism of the Holy Spirit would cause to flow out of our hearts rivers of living waters or waters that are flowing with life. Those waters are the words we speak, the words of God we speak to others. As Jesus has said,

 The words I speak unto you, they are spirit and they are life.[5]

The Lord has told us to open our mouth wide and that He would fill it.[6] He may send us a fellow companion like he sent Moses Aaron, but we should be overcoming our fears and becoming the powerful men and women of God He wants us to be. Powerful by being dependent and obedient to His still small voice that calls us to be a witness to all men.

In the Proverbs we read,

A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth and; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.[7]

In other words, our happiness and fulfillment doesn’t come from a good meal, but from sharing God’s word with others. We should be seeking and finding more avenues to share God’s word with those in need. Otherwise, we will be miserable, like Apostle Paul wrote.

For though I preach the gospel, I have nothing to glory of: for necessity is laid upon me; yea, woe is unto me, if I preach not the gospel.[8]

Or like Jeremiah bemoaned,

But if I say, “I will not mention his word or speak anymore in his name,” his word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot.[9]

Let us, therefore,  do our best to overcome our fears and develop both our talent of speaking publicly and writing. Let us learn to use the new  technology for God’s advantage and to the spreading of His precious words to the lost and needy. Let us make blogs, YouTube channels, Facebook posts, or any of the many other ways to speak up and be heard.  Let us stand up for Jesus and let our light so shine before men that they may see our good works and glorify our Father which is in heaven.[10]

“The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear, and get a record of successful experiences behind you.” ― William Jennings Bryan (1860-1925) famous American orator and politician[11]


[1] Daniel 11:33

[2] 2 Corinthians 10:10b

[3] 2 Corinthians 10:11

[4] Daniel 11:33a

[5] John 6:63

[6] Psalm 81:10b

[7] Proverbs 18:20

[8] 1 Corinthians 9:16

[9] Jeremiah 20:9 NIV

[10] Matthew 5:16

[11] https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/310550.William_Jennings_Bryan

Friday, July 31, 2020

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Warren Buffett Explains How He Conquered Stage Fright

Carmine Gallo, Forbes, Feb. 1, 2017

“I had been terrified of public speaking. I couldn’t do it,” billionaire Warren Buffett admitted on an HBO documentary that chronicled his life. Buffett conquered his nerves by enrolling in a public speaking course. He knew that if he couldn’t speak in public, it would end his career.

Overcoming his fear changed Warren Buffett’s life. “Every week the instructor would give a pencil to whoever had the done the most of what we had learned the week before,” Buffett explained. “So in the fourth or fifth week, I proposed [to Susie]. And she said yes. That week I got the pencil, and got engaged.”

The documentary titled Becoming Warren Buffett isn’t the first time we’ve heard Buffett promote the value of public speaking. It did, however, offer a rare glimpse into Buffett’s private office where he proudly showed off his Dale Carnegie public speaking certificate, which he received on January 13, 1952.

Image result for Dale Carnegie public speaking certificate“In my office, you will not see the degree that I got from the University of Nebraska. You will not see the master’s degree I got from Columbia University. But you will see the award certificate I got from the Dale Carnegie Course,” Buffett said.

Image result for becoming warren buffett documentaryI once read a book that featured training methods of elite military forces. In one chapter the author acknowledged his initial fear of high-altitude parachute jumping. How did he overcome his fear? By forcing himself to do it over and over and over until he “learned to love it.” If a person can overcome the fear of jumping from an airplane at 25,000 feet, it’s possible for anyone to learn to love public speaking. I’ve seen it happen countless times.

Image result for real-estate mogul, Barbara CorcoranFor one of my earlier books on communication skills I interviewed then real-estate mogul, Barbara Corcoran, before she became a star on ABC’s Shark Tank. “Communication is responsible for 90 percent of my success, without a doubt,” Corcoran said.

Image result for real-estate mogul, Barbara CorcoranFearless communication didn’t come easy for Corcoran. After an incident that gave her a severe case of stage fright, Corcoran–like Buffett–decided to conquer her fear to advance her career. Although she didn’t enroll in a public speaking course, she followed a similar method as Buffett did and found an opportunity to speak frequently. Corcoran pitched herself to NYU as a real-estate instructor. Over the next five years of teaching, Corcoran’s stage fright gradually diminished. And, like Buffett, public speaking brought an additional, unexpected benefit. Sitting in one of Corcoran’s classes was a sales dynamo who would go on to sell more condominiums for The Corcoran Group than any other realtor in the city.

People are often surprised when I give them a list of famous leaders who suffered from stage fright and who conquered their fears. I only write about those who have acknowledged their fears publicly. But for every one who is public, there are many others–billionaires, entrepreneurs, CEOs–who have expressed their fear to me in private.

Image result for Steve JobsThe desire to be socially accepted by the group is deeply engrained in our DNA. It’s completely natural to want to impress people. Even Steve Jobs, who many considered one of the most charismatic speakers of our time, was a bundle of nerves before some of his most famous product launches. Jobs worked at it, and become a more polished, confident and fearless speaker as time went on.

Image result for Dale Carnegie public speaking booksThe secret to overcoming the fear of public speaking is a three-step process. First, don’t be hard on yourself. Keep in mind that the most successful people in the world go through it. Second, start small. Buffett took a class with a few other students. Corcoran didn’t start by speaking to millions on television; she taught a small class. Third, take every opportunity to present and do it over and over and over.

Go ahead and jump. You might learn to love it.

Monday, January 9, 2017

The 1 Skill Warren Buffett Says Will Raise Your Value by 50 Percent

By Carmine Gallo, Inc. Jan. 5, 2017

Imagine working on one skill in 2017 that–once you improve on it–will raise your value by 50 percent. The one skill is public speaking.

The dividends on the investment you make in sharpening your communication skills will pay off for the rest of your career. Don’t take my word for it. Listen to billionaire Warren Buffett’s advice to a class of business students at Columbia University back in 2009:

Image result for warren buffett“Right now I would pay $100,000 for ten percent of the future earnings of any of you, so if you’re interested, see me after class.”

After the laughter subsided, he turned serious.

“Now, you can improve your value by 50 percent just by learning communication skills–public speaking. If that’s the case, see me after class and I’ll pay you $150,000.”

Buffett’s point is that mastering the art of public speaking is the single greatest skill to boost your career.

You might be saying, That’s great, but I have a fear of public speaking. It’s okay. Buffett was actually terrified, too.

Image result for Dale Carnegie public-speaking courseAs a young stock advisor he took a Dale Carnegie public-speaking course to overcome his fear. In a little known fact, Buffett dropped out of the course on his first try because he was afraid he’d be asked to speak up. He worked up his courage a second time and today proudly displays his Dale Carnegie certificate in his office.

Image result for TED curator Chris AndersonAccording to TED curator Chris Anderson, public speaking matters more than ever. In his book, TED Talks, Anderson writes: “As a leader–or as an advocate–public speaking is the key to unlocking empathy, stirring excitement, sharing knowledge and insights, and promoting a shared dream.”

Anderson calls the ability to captivate an audience “presentation literacy,” a new superpower to pitch your ideas, sell products and accomplish your dreams.

As an entrepreneur or small business owner, you are only as valuable as your ideas. If you cannot persuade others to buy-in to your ideas, then they don’t matter very much.

Your ideas deserve to be heard. Make a commitment this year to sharpen the one skill that can change your life, the direction of your business, and raise your value by 50 percent almost immediately.

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