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Friday, January 9, 2026

Proverbs 9


Proverbs 9  King James Version

1 Wisdom has built her house, she has hewn out her seven pillars:

2 She has killed her beasts; she has mingled her wine; she has also furnished her table.

3 She has sent forth her maidens: she cries upon the highest places of the city,

4 Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: as for him that wants understanding, she says to him,

5 Come, eat of my bread, and drink of the wine which I have mingled.

6 Forsake the foolish, and live; and go in the way of understanding.

7 He that reproves a scorner gets to himself shame: and he that rebukes a wicked man gets himself a blot.

8 Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee.

9 Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning.

10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.

11 For by me thy days shall be multiplied, and the years of thy life shall be increased.

12 If thou be wise, thou shalt be wise for thyself: but if thou scorns, thou alone shalt bear it.

13 A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knows nothing.

14 For she sits at the door of her house, on a seat in the high places of the city,

15 To call passengers who go right on their ways:

16 Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: and as for him that wants understanding, she says to him,

17 Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.

18 But he knows not that the dead are there; and that her guests are in the depths of hell.

Esteja atento à infeção do trato urinário!

 

Esteja atento à infeção do trato urinário.

Gostaria de partilhar convosco uma experiência recente que tive com um amigo com quem trabalho há 27 anos. Chama-se Adão, mas era conhecido pela alcunha de "João David". Esteve cerca de 13 anos no Brasil no ministério de evangelização, ajudando na distribuição de música cristã e cassetes, vídeos educativos e motivacionais para crianças e adultos, cartazes motivacionais cristãos e a revista Activated. Quando regressou à Europa, fez o mesmo em Portugal, acrescentando à lista CDs, DVDs e artigos da Anchor. Adão foi um distribuidor produtivo dos materiais da TFI tanto no Brasil como em Portugal até há pouco tempo. Eis o que aconteceu:

Quando Adão completou 67 anos, tornou-se elegível para a reforma, pois tinha contribuído durante 6 anos e servido no exército em Moçambique durante dois anos. Os dois anos no exército contaram a dobrar, totalizando 10 anos de contribuições para o sistema de Segurança Social e elegibilidade para a reforma. Contudo, continuamos o nosso ministério de distribuição, embora, com o passar do tempo e o envelhecimento, nos tenhamos dedicado mais ao acompanhamento e ao fornecimento de materiais. Recentemente, Adão estava a gravar áudios para um programa de rádio online da TFI no Brasil para a sua amiga Gabriela. Tem agora 78 anos.

Em outubro do ano passado, a minha mulher foi subitamente chamada à sua terra natal, Tenerife, para ajudar um dos nossos filhos mais velhos a solicitar o subsídio de invalidez. Nasceu sem cerebelo, o que provoca certas deficiências motoras e visuais. Como resultado da sua deficiência não ter sido certificada, não recebeu qualquer tratamento especial e acabou por conseguir apenas empregos temporários. Portanto, como as nossas vidas estavam a chegar ao fim, queríamos ajudar o Jorge (35) a obter a sua classificação de incapacidade, o que o ajudaria a conseguir um emprego e poderia incluir outros benefícios.

Com a minha esposa ausente, o Adão e eu ficámos responsáveis ​​pela gestão das nossas finanças. Disse-nos que preferia que abríssemos mão da sua parte do sustento, pois estaria a viver noutro país e queria poupar dinheiro para investir num projeto futuro, mas Deus pode guiar-nos. Como o nosso rendimento iria diminuir, achámos melhor ver se poderíamos viver com outros amigos da comunidade ou encontrar uma renda mais barata. Para não me alongar muito, acabámos por decidir visitar uma das minhas filhas, que se ofereceu para nos acolher.

Senti que o Senhor me guiava até à casa da minha filha, onde vivia o Adão. Ela disse que tinha espaço para nós os dois e, como o Adão era o seu "tio", precisava de o acolher também. O Adão não estava muito certo sobre se se mudar novamente para o norte, uma vez que tínhamos acabado de sair de uma casa onde vivíamos há dezasseis anos, em fevereiro passado. Ele queria ficar na aldeia para onde nos mudámos, mais a sul, e estava disposto a alugar um imóvel por 650 euros, o que era mais 20 euros do que a sua reforma. Eu realmente achei que ele não estava a pensar bem. Queria que eu continuasse o meu trabalho na associação em Lisboa e o visitasse aos fins de semana, levando-lhe comida da associação.

No entanto, eu (que farei 77 anos em fevereiro) queria retirar-me da associação. A minha filha ia ter um bebé e pediu-me para viver com ela e ajudá-la nesta nova experiência. Senti que o Senhor me chamava para isso. Finalmente convenci o Adão a vir comigo tentar. Depois, por volta de meados de Dezembro, viajámos para norte, de Peniche para Viana do Castelo, onde vivíamos desde Fevereiro.

Nos primeiros dias, visitámos amigos e conhecidos, e reparei que o Adão estava muito calado. Normalmente, participava em todas as minhas conversas e testemunhos com os nossos amigos e conhecidos. No entanto, estava estranhamente quieto. Um amigo perguntou: "Adão, não vais dizer nada?". Adão limitou-se a encolher os ombros. Depois, o nosso amigo perguntou-lhe se queria um copo de vinho do Porto. Mais uma vez, Adão não disse nada, apenas abanou o dedo negativamente.

Mais cedo, nesse mesmo dia, tínhamos visitado uma amiga que, durante muitos anos, nos presenteou com um grande peru de Natal. Ao despedirmo-nos desta amiga, que é viúva, o Adão abraçou-a e começou a beijá-la nas faces enquanto a abraçava. Ela retribuiu o beijo. Foi quase constrangedor para mim, pois não conseguia compreender o comportamento do Adão, uma vez que ele costuma ser muito reservado em relação às demonstrações de afeto. Ela pareceu compreender que ele precisava de consolo, embora nenhum de nós soubesse o que estava a acontecer com a saúde do Adão naquele momento.

Talvez tenha sido no dia seguinte que fui chamada para fazer um recado à associação em Lisboa. Como o Adão estava a agir de forma estranha, achei melhor evitar que ficasse ainda mais stressado com uma longa viagem de ida e volta. Perguntei à minha filha se o Adão podia ficar e ela e o marido concordaram. Às 6h da manhã de sábado, dia 20, saí para fazer o recado, deixando o Adão para trás. (Devo confessar que me veio à mente o versículo “melhor é serem dois do que um, porque têm melhor paga do seu trabalho”, mas ignorei, considerando-o ilógico, pois certamente era melhor para o Adão ficar do que me acompanhar numa viagem tão longa.)

Contudo, pouco antes do meio-dia, o Adão saiu de casa sem dizer para onde ia. Deixou a porta aberta. Como não regressou a casa ao anoitecer, a minha filha apresentou queixa por pessoa desaparecida e o marido saiu de carro à procura do Adão, sem sucesso. No dia seguinte, ao meio-dia, voltaram à esquadra local para confirmar o auto de notícia de pessoa desaparecida registado no dia anterior. Adão tinha sido encontrado numa aldeia a cerca de 10 quilómetros de onde viviam. Tinha-se perdido e, de seguida, começou a delirar e não conseguia pedir ajuda. Estava numa estrada com poucas casas e passou a noite inteira sentado na proteção de uma paragem de autocarro. Durante a noite, alguns motociclistas pararam, mas não conseguiu pedir ajuda. De manhã, por volta das 8h00, tentou entrar num carro estacionado em frente a uma pequena fábrica familiar e os proprietários perguntaram-lhe o que estava a fazer. Perceberam que não estava bem e chamaram a polícia.

A polícia chegou por volta do meio-dia, pois a noite em que Adão tinha estado fora tinha sido a mais fria do ano. Vários acidentes tinham ocorrido na autoestrada devido ao gelo. A polícia estava ocupada e não pôde atendê-lo até mais tarde. A minha filha e o meu genro conseguiram ir buscá-lo e levá-lo de volta para casa. O meu genro teve de ir trabalhar, pelo que o Adão ficou com a minha filha, que logo percebeu que ele precisava de cuidados médicos. Chamou a ambulância e foi com ele ao serviço de urgência local. Fez vários exames e recebeu alimentação intravenosa. De manhã, teve alta e foi-lhe dito que precisaria de acompanhamento com um psiquiatra, pois parecia estar a sofrer de demência acelerada.

O Natal estava a chegar. Adão começou a ter problemas em segurar a urina e começou a urinar nas calças e na cama com frequência. A não ser que o alimentássemos, ficava sentado no quarto sem fazer nada. Acabei por ficar doente durante alguns dias antes do Natal e a minha filha ficou a tomar conta de Adão. No dia 26, a minha mulher chegou de Tenerife e, no dia seguinte, jantámos com a família do meu genro. Adão participou na refeição, mas não falou. O nosso plano era levá-lo ao centro de saúde local depois de regressarmos ao nosso antigo apartamento e fecharmos as portas. Decidimos levar o Adão connosco para não causar mais stress à nossa filha, que está grávida de oito meses. Tínhamos de alimentar o Adão e tratá-lo como um bebé. Comprámos fraldas para ele usar, pois fazia constantemente xixi nas calças antes de conseguir chegar à casa de banho. Não sabíamos o que estava a acontecer e pensávamos que era o resultado de uma demência acelerada, da qual parecia apresentar sintomas.

No entanto, no sábado, dia 3 de janeiro, às 8h da manhã, o Adão fugiu de casa. Saltou da janela da cozinha e correu para a rua sem sapatos nem meias. Arrancou o pijama e correu nu pelas ruas da pequena cidade onde vivíamos. Os vizinhos chamaram a polícia quando viram o que aconteceu. Eu e a minha mulher fomos procurá-lo e finalmente encontrámo-lo num beco com duas mulheres que o impediam de fugir. A minha mulher conseguiu contê-lo e colocou-lhe um pedaço de roupão antes de a polícia e a ambulância chegarem para o levar para o hospital local. Foi de partir o coração ver a saúde mental de um irmão tão fiel deteriorar-se tão rapidamente.

No dia 5, a minha mulher estava a regressar a Tenerife e estávamos a fechar o apartamento enquanto o Adão estava no hospital. Dois irmãos que vivem na zona vieram ajudar-me a fazer as malas, pois estava emocionalmente abalado com tudo o que tinha acontecido. O hospital começou a falar em não libertar Adão até que fossem feitos mais exames para verificar se recuperaria as suas capacidades cognitivas. A assistente social estava cética quanto ao regresso de Adão à vida familiar normal.

É claro que enviámos pedidos de oração a vários grupos de oração que conhecíamos. Todos estavam a rezar por Adão. Não conseguíamos compreender como é que Adão pôde desenvolver demência tão rapidamente, embora parecesse apresentar os sintomas de demência rápida. No entanto, numa conversa com o meu filho em Inglaterra, ele referiu que, por vezes, a demência rápida é causada por uma infeção urinária. A minha nora, que trabalha com idosos no norte de Inglaterra, tinha experiência com casos assim como assistente social lá. Ela disse que, depois de a infeção do trato urinário ser tratada com antibióticos, via os pacientes recuperarem as suas capacidades mentais num período de cerca de duas semanas. Ela disse que a infeção do trato urinário poderia ser a causa da demência súbita de Adão. Assim que a infeção estiver curada, ele poderá recuperar as suas faculdades.

É por isso que estamos a rezar e a clamar pela restauração das capacidades mentais de Adão, uma vez que o hospital finalmente detetou que, de facto, ele tem uma infeção urinária. "Porque eu bem sei os pensamentos que tenho a vosso respeito, diz o Senhor; pensamentos de paz e não de mal, para vos dar esperança no vosso futuro", Jeremias 29:11.

A infeção do trato urinário não é facilmente detetada nos idosos, pois estes não sentem a dor intensa ao urinar que uma pessoa mais nova sentiria. Não percebem que têm uma infeção. A infeção pode provocar perda de apetite, isolamento e dificuldade de comunicação ou de reconhecimento das próprias necessidades. A pessoa pode, subitamente, responder de forma agressiva ou tornar-se agressiva. Pode apresentar delírio. Pode ter incontinência urinária.

O Adão apresentava todos estes sintomas, mas desconhecíamos por completo os efeitos da infecção urinária. Pensávamos que Adão tinha desenvolvido demência repentinamente, quando, na verdade, a demência dele pode estar a ser causada pela infecção urinária. Decidi escrever sobre a nossa experiência para alertar e informar todos os que conheço sobre os sintomas de uma infeção urinária, para que também possam estar atentos aos sintomas nos vossos amigos ou familiares idosos.

As infeções urinárias são bastante comuns nos idosos, mas como não são facilmente detetadas, é importante estar alerta. Certifique-se de que o seu ente querido está a consumir líquidos suficientes. Se, de repente, o seu ente querido apresentar alguns destes sintomas ou comportamentos, pode muito bem ser que tenha uma infeção urinária. Se não for tratada, a infeção urinária pode danificar os rins e, em última instância, causar sépsis e morte.

Por favor, incluam Adão (João David) nas vossas orações e que recupere completamente, tanto física como mentalmente. Obrigada.

Excerto da pesquisa Google AI sobre à infeção do trato urinário:

Sintomas de infeção do trato urinário em idosos:

Nos idosos, as infeções do trato urinário (ITU) podem apresentar sintomas urinários "clássicos", mas são caracterizadas por sintomas atípicos, principalmente uma mudança repentina do estado mental.

Sintomas Mentais e Comportamentais Atípicos

Em muitos idosos, especialmente nos que têm demência, os seguintes podem ser os únicos sinais de uma ITU: Confusão ou delírio súbito: Uma alteração rápida do estado mental, que pode incluir discurso incoerente ou incapacidade de prestar atenção.

Alterações comportamentais: Aumento da agitação, agressividade, isolamento ou alterações repentinas de humor.

Alucinações ou paranóia: Ver coisas que não existem ou sentir um medo invulgar.

Letargia e fadiga: Cansaço extremo, sonolência ou perda súbita de energia.

Sintomas Físicos Atípicos: Quedas e problemas de equilíbrio: Instabilidade súbita ou quedas inexplicáveis.

Incontinência nova ou agravada: Enurese noturna súbita ou perda de controlo da bexiga.

Diminuição do apetite: Falta súbita de interesse em comer.

Hipotensão: Pressão arterial baixa ou batimentos cardíacos acelerados (taquicardia).

Sintomas urinários clássicos

Os idosos podem também apresentar sinais típicos de infeção do trato urinário (ITU), embora sejam geralmente menos pronunciados: Disúria: Sensação de ardor ou dor ao urinar.

Frequência e urgência: Necessidade de urinar com maior frequência ou urgência do que o habitual.

Alterações da urina: Urina turva, escura, com sangue ou com odor fétido.

Dor pélvica: Pressão ou cólicas na zona lombar ou nas costas.

Sinais de disseminação da infecção (infecção renal)

Se uma ITU atingir os rins, trata-se de uma emergência médica. Esteja atento a: Febre alta (superior a 38,3 °C) ou, pelo contrário, febre muito baixa.

Arrepios e tremores (arrepios).

Dor na zona lateral (flanco), na zona lombar ou na virilha.

Náuseas e vómitos.

Nota para os cuidadores: Se notar uma mudança repentina e drástica no comportamento ou estado mental de uma pessoa idosa, procure imediatamente um médico, mesmo que não apresente febre ou dor ao urinar.

Esta informação é apenas para fins informativos. Para aconselhamento ou diagnóstico médico, consulte um profissional. As respostas da IA ​​podem conter erros. 

God Can Help You Through the Fiery Trial You Are Facing!

 

Dennis Edwards

A Study in 1 Peter 4-5.

"Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fire trial which is to try you, as if some strange thing happened unto you." 1 Peter 4:12.

The trials we have with our own children and personal family are like "fiery trials" as they affect us so much emotionally. A death of a child (adult or young), a child coming out as trans or gay, or becoming atheist and speaking vociferously against the things of God and or our faith, these types of situations can very easily cause emotional upheaval and bring discouragement. However, Apostle Peter tells us to "rejoice" and not let our trials bring us down or cause us to lose our equilibrium. He says,

"But rejoice, in as much as you are partakers of Christ's suffering; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy." 1 Peter 4:13

Peter is saying don't get discouraged, because the joy of the Lord is your strength. Rejoice, be glad with exceeding joy. Fight for joy, fight to be happy and don't let negative emotions overwhelm you. You are participating in Jesus’ suffering, therefore, rejoice.

"If you are reproached (which means criticized) for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God rests upon you: on their part (those that are criticizing you) He (God) is (being) evil spoken of, but on your part He (God) is (being) glorified." 1 Peter 4:14

When people are criticizing you for your Godly belief system, they are really criticizing God, so be happy, rejoice, and be glad!

"Yet if any suffer as a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this behalf." 1 Peter 4:16

When we are faced with these fiery trials or emotionally battles as a result of being attacked by our loved ones for our beliefs, we should use the weapon of praise and thanksgiving. We, also, may need to reflect on whether we are being attacked for our faith, or for our mistakes and our sins. We may need to confess, or apologize and make things right, before we can go on to improve our relationship with our love ones.

Apostle James tells us to confess our faults one to another and to pray for one another that we may be healed. James 5:16. Jesus told us that before we bring our gift to the altar we should try to make things right with the person we know we have offended, and then come an offer our gift. Matthew 5: 23-24. The healing we need to take place in our family often begins with our realizing our mistakes, confessing and making things right with our loved ones, then the path is open for restoration to begin.

"Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to Him in well-doing, as unto a faithful Creator." 1 Peter 4:19

“For unto you it is given in the behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for his sake.” Philippians 1:29.

Both Apostle Peter and Paul tell us that suffering for Jesus is part of our job as His Ambassadors. However, since God is ultimately in control, we can rest safely in His arms. He is a faithful and just Creator who loves us and our loved ones and has promised that His sheep will hear His voice and follow Him. Not one of them that chooses to follow shall He allow to fall out of His hand. Our part is to hold onto them through prayer, good communication, and love. We may also need to change any old belief systems or behaviours that need changing. The truth is that it is possible to build better relationships with our loved ones through God's grace and the power of the Holy Spirit that lives and works in us and them. For God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think. Ephesians 3:20

“Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.” 1 Peter 5:6

Walking humbly before God and others, especially those of our own family, helps greatly to build better relationships and have good communication. Humility is part of the formular for victory.

“Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7

We can cast all our anxieties and fears and problems up to the bosom of God through prayer and thanksgiving knowing God is bigger than our problem and will bring solution and victory in His time.

“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour: Whom resist steadfast in the faith.” 1 Peter 5:9

Apostle Peter’s formular for victory is to humble ourselves before God showing our utter dependence on Him, and then resisting the devil. Apostle James uses the same formular when he describes how to draw closer to God. He says,

“God resists the proud, but gives grace unto the humble. Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and he will lift you up.” James 4:6b, 7 & 10.

Humility brings us closer to God and then with God’s help we can resist the devil. “For greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.” 1 John 4:4b “For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.” 1 John 3:8b. The devil has already been defeated on the cross. We need not believe his lies nor submit to them, but rather resist them.

The devil is the one who is attacking us through the words and reproaches of our family members. If we resist him through the spoken word of God, prayer, and praise; he will flee. We need to fight the good fight of faith. A passive war will not win. The enemy is trying to devour us and destroy our faith through these verbal and emotional attacks from our loved ones. Do not submit them, fight!

The enemy had used the words of Apostle Peter to attack Jesus. Peter had rebuked Jesus for saying that he must go up to Jerusalem “and suffer many things of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed.” Matthew 16:21. Peter said,

“Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee.” Matthew 16:22. “But he (Jesus) turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savours not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.” Matthew 16:23.

Jesus called Peter, Satan, because Apostle Peter was being used by Satan to spread his lies. Peter, therefore, understood how words and reproaches from a friend or loved one can be an attack from the enemy and cause us to be discouraged. It is often those that are closest to us that hurt us the most. We read in the Psalm of David:

“For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him. But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance. We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company.” Psalm 55:12-14.

Jesus had warned us that even a man’s foes would be those of his own household. Matthew 10:36. Like He tested Abraham, God tests us to see if we are going to put Him first, or put the feelings and desires of our family first. Jesus said,

“He that loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And he that takes not his cross, and follows after me is not worthy of me.” Matthew 10:37-38

Abraham passed the test and put God first. God therefore said unto him, “for now I know that you fear God, seeing you have not withheld your son, your only son from me.” Genesis 22:12b. If we put God first, He will bless us.

“But the God of all grace, who has called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.” 1 Peter 5:10

God has promised to comfort those that suffer for his sake. He has promised He will not give us more than we can bear. Apostle Peter is assuring us that God will use the suffering He allows in our lives to make us stronger mature soldiers for Jesus. Peter may be remembering the words of Jesus from the Sermon on the Mount.

“Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.” Matthew 5:10-12

We can’t get around it. God wants us to rejoice and be exceeding glad in the face of the reproaches we suffer for His sake. If we have the right perspective and understand what’s happening, we can guard our emotional responses and rise above them through praise and the joy of the Lord. The devil wants to sadden and weaken us through the attacks we receive from those closest to us. But God’s word says,

“Sorrow not, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:10. “Rejoice…., and again I say, rejoice.” Philippians 4:4. “Be of good cheer.” John 16:33. “Abound with thanksgiving.” Colossians 2:7. “Count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations (or trials).” James 1:2 “And the peace of God which passes all understanding will fill your hearts and minds through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Philippians 4:7

“But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because you defend them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee.” Psalm 5:11. “Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, O righteous, and shout for joy, all you upright in heart!” Psalm 32:11 “These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” John 15:11 “Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” 1 Peter 1:8-9. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in faith so that you over flow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Romans 15:13 “Rejoice evermore!” 1 Thessalonians 5:16

Originally published 03-12-2024.

Watch Out for the Urinary Tract Infection

 


I wanted to share with you all an experience I recently had with a friend with whom I have worked with for the past 27 years. His name is Adão, but had the nickname “João David.” He spent some 13 years in Brazil in the ministry of evangelisation and helped distribute Christian music and audio cassettes, educational and motivational videos for children and adults, Christian motivational posters, and Activated Magazines. On his return to Europe, he did the same in Portugal, adding to the list CDs and DVDs, and Anchor articles. Adão was a fruitful distributor of TFI materials in both Brazil and Portugal until just recently. Here’s what happened.

When Adão became 67 he was eligible for a pension as he had paid his contributions for 6 years and had served in the military in Mozambique for two years. The two years in the military counted  double. That gave him 10 years all together of contributions to the Social Security system and eligibility. However, we continued in our ministry of distribution although we moved to more follow-up and provisioning as time went by and we became older. Recently Adão had been recording audios for a TFI online radio program in Brazil for his friend Gabriela. He's now 78.

In October of last years, my wife suddenly was called away to her homeland of Tenerife to help one of our older sons apply for disability. He was born without a cerebellum which causes certain motor and visual disability. As a result of him not having his disability certified, he was not given any special treatment and ended up with only temporary employment. Therefore, as our lives were coming to an end, we wanted to help Jorge (35) obtain his disability rating which would help him gain employment and may include other benefits.

With my wife away, that left Adão and myself to manage our finances. She had told us she wanted us to do without her part of the support as she would be living in another country and wanted to save her finances for an investment in a future project, however, the Lord may lead. As our income was going to take a dive, we thought it better to see if we could move in with other community friends or find a cheaper rent. To not make the story too long, we ended up deciding to visit one of my daughter’s who offered to take us in.

I felt the Lord leading me to my daughter’s place with Adão. She said she had room for both of us and since Adão was her “uncle,” she needed to take him in, too. Adão wasn’t so sure about moving north again, as we had just moved out of a house we had lived in for sixteen years, last February. He wanted to stay in the village we had moved to more south and was willing to rent an accommodation for 650 euros, which was 20 euros more than his pension. I really thought he wasn’t thinking right. He wanted me to continue my work in the association in Lisbon and come and visit him on the weekends and bring him food from the association.

However, I (77 in February coming) wanted to retire from working at the association. My daughter was going to have a baby and was asking me to come live with her and be a help to her in her new experience. I felt the Lord calling me to do so. I finally convinced Adão to come with me and give it a try. So about mid-December we journeyed north to Viana do Castelo from Peniche where we had been living since last February.

The first days we visited friends and contacts and I noticed Adão was very quiet. He would usually participate in any witnessing or talking I would have with our friends and contacts. However, he was unusually quiet. One friend asked him, “Adão, aren’t you going to say anything?” Adão just shrugged his shoulders. Then our friend asked him if he wanted a glass of Porto. Again, Adão didn’t speak, but just shook his finger “no.”

Earlier the same day, we had visited a friend who had for many years given us a big turkey for Christmas. As we said good-bye to this woman friend who is a widow, Adão hugged her and started kissing her on the cheeks as he hugged her. She responded kissing him back. It was almost embarrassing for me as I couldn’t understand Adão’s behaviour as he’s usually very reserved in giving affection. She seemed to understand he needed comforting, even though none of us knew what was happening to Adão’s health at that time.

It might have been the next day when I was called away to do an errand for the association in Lisbon. Since Adão was acting strangely, I thought it was best to not have him get further stressed with a long trip down to Lisbon and back. I asked my daughter if Adão could stay and she and her husband agreed. At 6:00 am Saturday morning the 20th, I set off on the errand, leaving Adão behind. (I must confess I kept getting the verse, “two are better than one for they have a good reward for their labour,” but I brushed it aside as being illogical, for surely it was better for Adão to stay back than to come with me on a long trip.)

However, some time before noon, Adão left the house not saying where he was going. He left the door open. When he wasn’t home by night-fall, my daughter made a missing person’s report and her husband went around with his car trying to locate Adão, to no avail. The next day they returned at noon to the local Police to confirm their missing person’s report from the day earlier. Adão had been found in a local about 10 kilometres away from where they lived. He had gotten lost and then became delirious and was unable to ask for help. He was on a road with very little housing and stayed the whole night sitting in the shelter of a bus stop. During the night some bikers came and stopped, but he was unable to ask for help. In the morning around 8:00 am he tried to enter a car parked outside a small family factory and the owners asked him what he was doing. They realised he was not well and called the police.

The police came for him around noon as the night Adão was out had been the coldest of the year. Various accidents had happened on the motor-way because of ice. The police had been busy and unable to attend to him until later. My daughter and son-in-law were able to pick him up and bring him back to their home. My son-in-law had to go to work, so Adão was left with my daughter, who soon realised that Adão needed medical attention. She called the ambulance and went with him to the local emergency. He had various tests and intravenous feeding. By morning he was discharged and told he would need follow-up with a psychiatrist for he seemed to be suffering rapid dementia.

Christmas was soon coming. Adão started having trouble holding his pee and began peeing in his pants, and in his bed, regularly. Unless we fed him, he would sit in his room doing nothing. I ended up getting sick for a few days before Christmas and my daughter was taking care of Adão. On the 26th my wife arrived from Tenerife and the next day we had a meal with our son-in-law’s family. Adão was  participating, but not talking. Our plan was to take him to the local health center after first going back to our last apartment and closing it up. We decided to take Adão with us as not to cause our daughter who is eight months pregnant added stress. We were having to feed Adão and treat him like a baby. We bought diapers for him to wear as he was constantly peeing in his pants before he could get to the toilet. We didn’t know what was the matter and thought it was a result of rapid dementia which he seemed to have the symptoms of.

However, Saturday the 3rd of January at 8:00 in the morning Adão ran away from home. He jumped out of kitchen window and ran to the street without shoes or socks. He ripped off his pyjamas and ran nude in the streets of the small town we had been living in. The neighbours called the police when they saw what happened. My wife and I went looking for him and eventually found him in an alley with two women not letting him run away. My wife was able to subdue him and managed to put part of a bathrobe on him before the police and ambulance arrived to take him to the local hospital. It was heart breaking to see a faithful brother’s mental health diminish so rapidly.

On the 5th my wife was flying back to Tenerife and we were closing up that apartment while Adão was in hospital. Two brethren living in the area came to assist me in the packing as I was emotionally  distraught from all that had happened. The hospital started talking about not releasing Adão until further testing and to see if he would regain his cognitive abilities. The assistant social worker was dubious of Adão returning to normal family life.

Of course, we put out prayer requests to various prayer groups we knew of. Everyone was praying for Adão. We couldn’t understand how Adão could come down with dementia so quickly, though he did seem to have the symptoms of rapid dementia. However, in a conversation with my son in England, he mentioned that sometimes a rapid dementia is caused by a urinary tract infection. My daughter-in-law who works with old folks in northern England had had experience with such cases as a social worker there. She said that once the urinary tract infection was cleared up with antibiotics, she had seen patients recover their depleted mental capacities in a period of around two weeks. She said the urinary tract infection could be the cause of Adão’s sudden dementia. Once the infection is cleared he could possibly regain his faculties.

That’s what we are now praying for and claiming God’s restoration of Adão's mental abilities, as the hospital has finally detected that, in deed, Adão has a urinary tract infection. "For I know my thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thought of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end," Jeremiah 29:11.

The urinary tract infection is not easily detected in older people as they don’t experience the severe pain when they urinate that a  younger person would experience. They don’t realise they have an  infection. The infection can cause loss of appetite, withdrawal and lack of ability to communicate or know what one’s needs are. The person can suddenly answer aggressively or be aggressive. Can experience delirium. Have an inability to hold one’s urine.

Adão had all these symptoms, but we were completely unaware of the effects of the urinary tract infection. We thought Adão had sudden dementia, when in fact, his dementia may be being caused by the urinary tract infection. I wanted to write about our experience to advise and inform everyone I know of the symptoms of a urinary tract infection, so that you too could be on the look out for your older friend or parent.

Urinary tract infections are quite common in older people, but since they are not easily detected, it’s important to be on the alert. Make sure your loved one is consuming sufficient liquids. If suddenly your loved manifests some of these symptoms or behaviour, it may very well be they have a urinary tract infection. If not treated the urinary tract infection can damage the kidneys and ultimately cause sepsis and death.

Please keep Adão, (João David), in your prayers and that he will make a complete recovery of his health and his mental capabilities. Thank you.

Excerpt from Google AI search:

Urinary tract infection in older people symptoms:

In older adults, urinary tract infections (UTIs) may present with "classic" urinary symptoms, but they are uniquely characterized by atypical symptoms—most notably a sudden change in mental state.

Atypical Mental & Behavioral Symptoms

In many seniors, especially those with dementia, the following may be the only signs of a UTI: Sudden confusion or delirium: A rapid change in mental status, which may include incoherent speech or inability to pay attention.

Behavioral changes: Increased agitation, aggression, withdrawal, or sudden mood swings.

Hallucinations or paranoia: Seeing things that aren't there or feeling unusually fearful.

Lethargy and fatigue: Extreme tiredness, drowsiness, or a sudden loss of energy.

Atypical Physical Symptoms Falls and balance issues: Sudden unsteadiness or unexplained falls.

New or worsening incontinence: Sudden bed-wetting or loss of bladder control.

Decreased appetite: A sudden lack of interest in eating.

Hypotension: Low blood pressure or a fast heartbeat (tachycardia).

Classic Urinary Symptoms

Older adults may still experience typical UTI signs, though they are often less pronounced: Dysuria: A burning sensation or pain when peeing.

Frequency and urgency: Needing to urinate more often or more urgently than usual.

Urine changes: Cloudy, dark, bloody, or foul-smelling urine.

Pelvic pain: Pressure or cramping in the lower abdomen or back.

Signs the Infection Has Spread (Kidney Infection)

If a UTI moves to the kidneys, it is a medical emergency. Watch for: High fever (over 101°F / 38.3°C) or, conversely, a very low temperature.

Chills and shaking (rigors).

Pain in the side (flank), mid-to-lower back, or groin.

Nausea and vomiting.

Note for Caregivers: If you notice a sudden, drastic change in an older person’s behavior or mental state, seek medical advice immediately, even if they do not have a fever or painful urination.

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